hansome_handy
27 Lawrence, KS
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My self-summary
I'm a man's man with a side of dork / nerd, like if Indiana Jones and Spock could have a love baby. I have a big heart and am always looking to grow be it through acquiring new skills / knowledge or taking on a new perspective.

I crave activity and deep conversations and am very open minded.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working and recharging my batteries (financially, motivationally, and intellectually) after attaining my B.Sc. in Chemistry. House projects, cooking, motorcycling, gadgets, derping around with Boltz (my dog buddy), and work make up the bulk of my day.

I am a manager at "Ma and Pa" restaurant downtown. I'm learning how to be a good leader in a work environment which I know will be useful someday. Starting out by helping finish up construction on the place, learning to Saute and all the other aspects of the restaurant makes me a "go to" guy which I really enjoy professionally.

I now express my self entirely different in the kitchen. I use to enjoy food and cook but now I can cook the food I enjoy!

I own a house which soaks up my time and money, as I'm remodeling it (hence handy). Someday I might start trying to focus more on architecture and housing trying to apply my science background to housing problems. I feel a tiny house in my future.
I’m really good at
Telling stories and having "deep" conversations, I never stop thinking, it's dangerous. Most of the time I'm glad I can't shut it off though :-).

Fixing things! I have always been a tinkerer and a creator of mechanical things. I love using my hands and tools to express my creativity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly once I open up. I'm not shy, I just like to observe people and things first.

I'm always cracking jokes and giggling my head off. I've been told I have a crazy yet cheerful laugh and attractive eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently there has been a decent amount of a feminist and alternative relationship kick with my books: Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, The Feminine Mystique.

I like to read science fiction as well: Ender's Saga (Ender's Game), etc.

I'm a huge fan or Tarantino movies.
Star Trek
Anything with and interesting plot or unique perspective.

Alt-j, Spoon, Rolling Stones, The Guess Who, Thelonius Monk, LCD Soundsystem, Daft Punk, The Avett Brothers, Broken Bells, Portugal the Man, Local Natives, White Rabbits, Cold War Kids, Foster the People, this goes on for days and across most genres other than Rap/RB/Gospel/Contemporary Country. <-Those are pretty "meh"

Thai food just gets me, it is amazing.

I love wine and cocktails as well as any good beer. Way into pairing booze with food now.

( I'm pretty keen on experiencing culture and I'm looking for friends or partners to experience new things with.)
The six things I could never do without
1) Family / Friends
2) Boltzmann my dog buddy
3) Science
4) Hand Tools
5) Sunlight
6) The Internet/ Technology / Using them to learn and relax
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What type of people I want to spend my time with.

Science! How I can advance Science and society with my set of skills. A myriad of energy topics.

Houses / building things

How I can grow as a person an other peoples perspectives.

What to cook next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe building / fixing something (computer, motor bike, etc.).

I will relax and watch a movie often too.

Sometimes Espresso and drinks downtown are in order as well. Going dancing or camping, maybe catching a play or a gallery.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have really ugly feet... I mean straight up scary.
You should message me if
You are happy with your life, and are willing to share it with someone who will accept you for both your virtues and vices, as a friend or otherwise.

You want someone to cook or go thrifting with.

It doesn't bother you that I'm in an open relationship with someone because you realize that monogamy isn't the only option that ensures everyone is loved, appreciated, and secure.
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