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22 F New York, NY

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I care about things.

Took some time off from school and lived in Vermont for a year and a half, but now I'm back!

Queer. I'm interested in people of all genders and orientations, as long as they're openminded! I'm incredibly attracted to people who respect boundaries and consent (this is a must) and who can communicate honestly about what they're looking for. Please be open about your intentions and I'll do the same for you! :) Also, if I sound too "radical" or "PC" for you, I probably am.

**Note: at the moment, I'm not interested in casual sex. I want to surround myself with people who are caring, kind and supportive--looking for relationships (in whatever form) that are worth my time and effort. Please don't contact me if you're not actually interested in getting to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
-Living in the East Village
-Full-time NYU student, planning on graduating next May. Studying stigma, especially the destigmatization of sexuality, queerness and mental illness. Also studying privilege/oppression, social justice, identities, compassion...the list goes on. I'm minoring in social work and I want to get my MSW one day. I'm interested in working with adolescents, LGBTQ people and/or people who live with mental illness.
-Commuting to so many appointments that at this point I kind of count it as a part-time job... (see my most private thing for more info)
-Interning at an LGBTQ center, writing an allyship training curriculum for them
-Working at the NYU LGBTQ Center (peer education and facilitating events)
-Tumblring nonstop
-(As of a few weeks ago) beginning to realize that I actually do like yoga :)

Basically I'm constantly flitting around doing a lot of different things, being busy beyond belief and trying to change the world. Feel free to join me.
I’m really good at
Snarky written one-liners that may come off as slightly flirty or slightly caustic, depending on how nice you are
Walking long distances, preferably through NYC
Challenging heteronormativity and gender norms
Making Jolly Rancher vodka
Finding the fantastic things at thrift shops
Writing in Hebrew (my grammar's impeccable but I can barely speak it. So embarrassing after 13 years of Jewish school and countless months spent in Israel)
Making you think
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my eyes. They change colors :)

Within 2 days of meeting me, someone who's now a close friend said I remind her of Tina Belcher because she's "an awkward sex-positive feminist who doesn't shave her legs." (I am consistently the first three things, last one's up for debate.)
The six things I could never do without
-Queer/feminist/activist communities. Support.
-Eye contact on subways--the sexy kind,
not the scary kind [although the scary kind can be sexy too, in small doses]
-iPhone, unfortunately.
-My beautiful, loyal, superintelligent dog (EDIT: Lava passed away right before Thanksgiving. I love her to pieces and will probably show you lots of pictures.)
-New York City, the constant adventure I'm lucky to call my home
On a typical Friday night I am
Invite me somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm somewhat crazy. I'm also highly functional, pretty stable and very interesting. I've struggled a lot in my life and endured a lot of pain, which has become a part of my past. I'm very open about what I've been through, but by no means does it define me. I currently need a lot of support to get through school, and anyone who wants to be in my life needs to respect that I have a fuckton of appointments and tend to be really busy. Sometimes I won't be up for going out. I'm not the type of person who's going to get wasted with you 5 nights a week (no judgement if you do, but that's not me.) I believe strongly in the power of self-care.

In my mind this isn't something private at all, and it's just another facet of my life. But if you're someone who's afraid of people who "aren't normal," you're not going to like me and this isn't going to work.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know the difference between "your" and "you're." (There is no greater turnoff than "hey your sexy.")

Message me if you are open-minded, compassionate and nonjudgmental.

My ideal date/friend/partner/whatever:
-is a feminist and/or activist. [preferably] identifies as queer. not a prerequisite but this is a huge part of my identity that's incredibly important to me. you must respect it and love it, not just tolerate it.
-seeks intimacy in some form.
-does not contribute to systems of oppression (if you are racist, homophobic, transphobic, misogynist, ableist, classist, sexist, etc., get off my profile right now.)
-will not message me saying how cool it is that i'm bi. i'm not bi.
-understands depression and anxiety
-is open to learning
-knows what cisgender means.
-is kind.