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57 West Lafayette, IN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 30
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hate advertising myself...
Okay, okay, I'll give it a try:
My friends describe me as responsible, reliable, witty, smart, honest, and a great cook. I think I have a great sense of humor and I can make sad people smile... And my friends can always count on me!
I am looking for a woman who can love me without controlling me. She should be smart, loving, mild mannered. (Good manners are important, too.)
Take me as I am, treat me right, don't hurt me, don't play games with me (I've been there and I don't need more of that.)
And: I want to be the only man in your life. If you need more than one (like my ex did) you're not what I'm looking for! Go and do your thing, but leave me alone! There are three important words in my life: RESPECT, HONESTY, LOYALTY.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Good question... I'm living it. Trying to have some fun times with friends. And looking for the one and only I can spend the rest of my life with.
Otherwise I spend a lot of time working.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, fishing, hunting, playing my many instruments, flirting (well, sort of), kissing (hopefully...), cuddling, listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My German accent... I was born and raised in Germany and I am now a proud citizen of the US.
The next thing people notice: My "Old School Chivalry" and my good manners. (I was raised in Germany and my parents taught me all kinds of important things)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have a favorite book. (Well, maybe some Stephen King books...)
I love Celtic music and I love writing and playing my own songs (Tell me more about you and I might write one for you...).
I am definitely NOT into jazz, rap, and hip-hop!
Food? There is not much I don't like as long as it is not too spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, friends, cooking, love, and two others.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. I don't like bars with drunk and noisy people.
I rather stay at home and take silly tests on OKCUPID...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's private for a reason! Ask me and I will tell you. But I'll have to know you very well ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like what you see and read here and if you are seriously interested.

If you have mental problems and need a personal therapist: You're wasting your time.
If you don't know how to communicate: You're wasting MY time.
If you want to play games: Go back to kindergarten
If you think you're not ready for a relationship: Get a puppy.

Write to me if you like a man with a strong personality and excellent manners, someone who will love and respect you and protect you with his life if necessary. Write to me if you appreciate old school chivalry, unconditional dedication and endless passion. Find out whether you like being held in my arms when you are sad, pushed hard when you are undecided, supported when you failed, loved when you feel lonely and mistreated by the world.
Write to me if you want to be with a man who knows how to make a woman feel special...