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happygirl319

45 F Redondo Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am ridiculously happy with my life. I have a career I love, singing professionally and teaching music. I have an extraordinary family with whom I work and play on a daily basis. Every man who has fallen for me has fallen equally hard for my family so beware. I have two gorgeous children who are still very young (3 & 4) and therefore still think I am a goddess. I’m enjoying that while it lasts knowing it is all too fleeting. I am hands-down in the best shape of my life and feel physically, emotionally and sexually amazing. I had no idea 45 was going to be like this!

I am not looking for a father for my children. That job is already taken. If things go great between us, it will likely be a year or more before you will meet my kids. Even then I may choose to keep my relationship with you separate from my relationship with them.

What I am looking for is a friend, partner, playmate and lover for me. I’m seeking that palpable chemistry, the kind that has you feel your lover enter the room before you can see them. If that sounds like foolish fantasy to you, then please skip to the next profile. If, however, you know exactly what I'm talking about, by all means read on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend some of my best time raising my 2 young kids. I'm also extremely blessed to be doing what I love professionally as a singer and voice teacher. It keeps me very busy but never does it feel like work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Almost anything I put my mind to. I love a challenge, both professionally and personally. I love transforming situations that seem impossible. I'm an outstanding parent to my kids. I take really great care of the people that I love and nothing gives me greater pleasure and satisfaction.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smokin' hot bod of course! Seriously now, from a purely physical standpoint, I do get complements on my hair…I am genetically gifted in that area. I am also told I do not look my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm happiest when I have a great novel on my nightstand. An all-time favorite is "The Art Of Racing In The Rain". I try to read books before seeing the movies on which they are based and I teach teenage girls so yes, I've read the "Divergent", "Hunger Games" and "Twilight" series. Should I have put that under "Most private thing I'm willing to admit"? Other favorites include "Time Travelers Wife" and "Water For Elephants". For the record, I read those before there was any movie deal in the works. I also enjoy a fair amount of non-fiction/self improvement such as "Rich Dad, Poor Dad", "Let Me Hear Your Voice", "Under the Banner of Heaven", "Holographic Universe", etc...
I love movies of all kinds but am a wimp when it comes to horror. Favorites include: On Golden Pond, Pulp Fiction, Sex, Lies and Videotape, Best In Show, Silence of the Lambs, Fight Club, Legends of the Fall (Did I seriously just admit that?), Raising Arizona… This is too hard, there are way too many.
I have been loving the amazing quality of series television these days. "Breaking Bad" rocked my world. I'm currently loving Nurse Jackie, Mad Men, Masters of Sex, Modern Family, Walking Dead, Shameless.
As for food, eating is my favorite pastime. I love checking out restaurant recommendations of all kinds and know that many of the best eats come from the most casual of venues. I don't gravitate toward steakhouses, I tend to prefer ethnic dining (Thai and Middle Eastern are some favorites) or a place with great fish options. I'll try anything!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Integrity/Honesty
Exercise
Family
Love
Passion
Laughter/Fun
Great Food (That's 7, I know...)
Fulfilling Work (Now I'm up to 8, Sheesh!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How am I going to re-enter the dating world with two young kids who demand a lot of my attention? Perhaps it is impractical for me to explore love right now. My partner will have to have a very full life of his own and be willing to initially limit most of our shared time to every other weekend when my kids are with their dad. I realize that will be a deal-breaker for some. I hoping the man who is meant for me will see all of that as a recipe for intense anticipation and profound passion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something fun with my sister which can include live music and new people or a $25 massage and mexican food. I've also been known to relax at home with a glass of wine and look for you on OK Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love monogamy. I love commitment. I have never experienced jealousy or possessiveness in a relationship. If I am committed to you, you feel it on a cellular level. I love the freedom that commitment affords me to be sexually expressive, creative, generous, vulnerable and free. I spent the better part of the past decade with someone who was repressed. During that time I needed to shut down one of the most beautiful and powerful aspects of who I am. That felt like a death to me and now I have come alive again. I do not require a partner with PhD level tantric skills or an endless history of sexual conquests. What I do require is a man, a real MAN, a dominant man, who is confident and assertive. I am passionate, confident and not afraid to express myself.
You should message me if
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• You live in the South Bay or VERY nearby.
• You live a full and fulfilling life and can be patient with my parenting schedule.
• You exercise and take wonderful care of yourself so you feel as great as you look.
• You love deeply and are sexually open and expressive.
• You have impeccable integrity.
• You are financially secure and responsible.
• You don't think this is an unreasonable list.