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  • Ages 28–40
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6' 0" (1.83m)
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Post grad
My self-summary
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Originally from just outside NYC, I lived abroad teaching English in Japan after finishing my undergraduate at Cornell University. Decided to throw out my TV and headed for architecture school to pursue my masters. After 5 years of Boston winters I decided it was time to abandon the snow shovel and move to a warmer climate. Must have an adventurous spirt, like the spontaneous over the planned and believe that in the end it will all be fun or one memorable experience.

I try to be outside more than inside. I will watch the game on Sunday, but only if I have spent the same amount of time in the sun on the previous day. I do a lot of bicycling. Road cycling at this time, but hopefully getting into more mountain biking. Love the water but still have not conquered surfing.

I have been described as sarcastic, clever, sly, witty, sharp, zen and shy. I really do not know how shy got in there, must have been an off day. Will give anyone a run for their money in chinese checkers and political debates. Believe that is it better to regret what you did then what you did not do and really think a good cup of coffee can make any bad day better.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am architect and a reformed East coaster.
When I am not working my day job I am working my night job for my own office. Trying to shift the balance from working for others to only working for myself.
I’m really good at
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Being awesome!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Actually as cliche as this is, it is my eyes, and then my east coast accent. I really don't think I have and new york accent but my pronunciation of cawffee, foor, and drawa, seen to have others thinking differently. Oh I almost forgot about "whata"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In one day I ca go from listening to the Grateful Dead, to Dylan, to Miles Davis, to Iron Maiden. Music gets me through the day. I try to start and end the day on a positive note (no pun intended). I have been to the opera, I enjoy chamber music and am always open to get to Harvells in Santa Monica.

I am on a quest for the perfect burger in Los Angeles. I am taking suggestions. I also enjoy Thai food a great deal, but am truly open to any kind of food. Except maybe for Ethiopian, I don't like to eat with my hands unless I am at a baseball game.

I don't watch a great deal of Television. I spend a lot of time reading. I also try to work myself to exhaustion. I tend to read random things. Now I am reading the autobiography of Henry Ford. See random. I am also great at skimming magazines. I cannot resist Star magazine when I am in the check out line. It helps put things in perspective.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Architecture
2. Naps
3. Intelligent conversation
4. Sarcasm
5. John Coltrane
6. Bass (I am a musician, in a band, just a hobby unless Rush calls and needs an opening band)
7. Cappuccino
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just exactly I got here (not just OKC).

Why I am not Volunteering more. I need to give back.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying a good dinner and decompressing from the week. More importantly I believe Sunday mornings are for the New York Times, and sunday nights are great for going out to dinner. Always end on a high note. Plus it makes going into work Monday morning so much easier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My name isn't Jack ;)
Due to netflix I have started to relive my childhood through bad television. I am in a big "Murder She Wrote" phase. That Jessica Fletcher she is AMAZING!
You should message me if
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You want to engage in polite and engaging conversation.