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happymike11222

42 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Native New Yorker wanderlust seeking best friend/lover/travel partner.

Friends accuse me of being generous, loyal and reliable. I have to plead 'No Contest' on all counts.

I enjoy spending quality time with old friends and making new ones along the way.

When it comes to good restaurants, coffee shops, book stores, lounges, live music venues, museums, and theater, count me in. It's impossible to get enough of these things in New York City.

Weekends in the summer find me at Fire Island, where I make time for hanging with friends on the beach, yoga, and dinner parties.

Work and career are supremely important to me in their own right but also because they afford me the opportunity to do the cool stuff mentioned above that makes life enjoyable.

Who I Am Looking For:

You are not averse to the above activities.

You have a big life of your own, that you don't mind sharing.

You have self knowledge.

You rather read than watch TV.

You rather go out and see live music or talk w/ friends over coffee than stay in and make it a "Blockbuster Night".

You rather donate a kidney than move to the suburbs.

You go to museums and galleries and reserve the right to make fun of the art.
I’m really good at
Listening.

Flying across the country (or across the ocean) for long weekends on short notice. Usually for a concert or a party or to see a friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, my intellectual curiosity and eventually my warmth and humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Haunts:
Boiler Room, Bembe, 718 Sessions, Santos, nublu, MoMA, PS1, #GlideSF, Morgan Library, Fort Tilden, Cielo, Output, Dope Jams.

Jaunts:
Kiev, Odessa, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Ibiza, Madrid, Toledo (Spain, not Ohio), Art Basel Miami, Berlin, Fire Island

Books:
The Alchemist, Diary of An Oxygen Thief by Anonymous, Dry, Suburban Nation, Travesty, Lies My Teacher Told Me, Skin Tight, Never Eat Alone

Mags:
New Yorker, Economist, L, Atlantic, Vice, Onion.

Rags:
NYT, WSJ, Rx trades.

Next read is Online Dating for Dummies

Bands:
From Sonny Rollins to Henry Rollins;
Brazilian Girls;
Nouvelle Vague;
Pixies;
Joy Division;
Nick Cave;
Rammstein;
Jonah Smith Band;
Black Flag;
Die Antwoord;
Hank & Cupcakes;
Unicorn Smack;
Groove Armada;
dance, house, jazz
The six things I could never do without
Books,
Ill beats,
passport,
music,
both my nieces,
the infectious laughter of friends (does that count as two?),
NPR,
yoga and coffee (usually concurrently)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where to travel to next. Suggestions?
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something awesome with some fabulous friends -- probably dinner and something w music. No different from any other night of the week.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've read this far.

But if NYC is not in your long term life plans, it ain't gonna work. Just sayin'.