I am happy, healthy, active and self employed, specializing in helping people to relax and be peaceful. It's my nature to be positive and to smile a lot and although I love to go, I love to relax at home with my kitties as well! Family is important to me, as are my friends! Most folks would consider me very dependable, lots of fun, a deep thinker, and someone who is creative and resouceful. I am upbeat, postive, spontaneous, and very flexible. The the ocean is one of my most favorite places to be, it refills and restores me and I love being in it, on it or walking along it. Music and dance, watercolors and photography are part of my joy and you will often find me cooking or flower gardening. I love good movies ( esp. commedies, chic flix, documentaries and good foreign films) I am interested in a rather spiritual, even metaphysical man with good values, great sense of humor and who is active, fit and fun, and who loves to share and talk. Someone who wants to meet a really good woman who can be a best friend, companion and possible life mate. Someone to make plans with!

I am celebrating life everyday. No matter what I do, I am grateful to be here! Generally, I am recreating my life a lot! The river is close by and I throw my kayak into the car and head out a couple of times a week to free my spirit and enjoy. For years, I have been travelling a week a month for work, but have shifted that to every other month or quarterly. I love to dance, and want to learn east coast swing and maybe salsa! People are fascinating to me, I love them, smile at all and engage in conversations with most. I live with 2 cats who are like good family. Travel excites me and I love adventures into other countries. Have not done near enough of that yet! Prefer to travel with a companion.

Supporting myself and others in positive ways. The healing arts intrigue me and I have studied and continue to study many forms of healing and energy work. I love to learn and am good at researching infomation and sharing it. I write well and enjoy it, and believe I have a couple of books in me. I love to cook, but am not a gormet chef, some would consider me really good and others might prefer less garlic! I am really good at jumping in and finding answers, helping out and finding solutions to improbable stuff. Also, at making the most and best of any situation! I am proficient at having fun and encouraging others to have fun and even be silly sometimes! I love bringng passion, creativinty and surprises to all the adventures of life, and do it really well! I am an outdoors lover and like being with people and sharing food.

Most people probably notice my smile first. And maybe my eyes!

Oh wow! I love to read and read all kinds of books. Favorites this year include The Help, The Book of Love and The Poet Prince, Awakening Kindness, The Moses Code, The Alchemist, several adventures, love stories, historical novels, and self help, etc! Movies include: Midnight in Paris, The Lady with the Dragon Tattoo, Ballerina, and many more, I love the old classics too. My favorite shows include Cirque du Solei, I enjoy most music,, musicals and concerts with the exception of rap and heavy metal. I love the symphony and ballet and even most opera. I love good food! Carrabbas, Bella's, Ray's on the River, Nan, to name a few. Asian and Thai, Italian, Indian and Seafood are all great and enjoyable, as is food on the grill at home! I can feast on a great salad and homemade soup!

Connection to God/spirit, family (includes my furry ones) and friends, laughter, water (as in bath, rain, ocean, river, lake!) music, hugs ...oh gosh..there are more!

Life, creative projects, travel, joy, people and what I have to contribute. What will it take for peace and harmony to prevail? How do we stimulate and encourage more compassion and true connectedness for all?

Maybe at home with a movie or great book. Maybe out with friends, or maybe visiting a neighbor and having good food. Or I could be caught up in an art project like making cards or jewelry!

Perhaps one of my strong points, seeing the best in others and seeing many perspectives at once, is also, at times a great handicap or weakness and it can be extremely uncomfortable.

You have a good sense of humor, you are honest and real and fun to be with. (No players) Little baggage, positive and uplifiting outlook on life and enjoy people. Maybe hoping to have that last first date too!