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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:56pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Other (Poorly)
My self-summary
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* My hair was blonde-like, and it's now back to my natural color.
* I have lived and worked in Africa and China and really appreciate that perspective.
* I have travelled all over and am still excited about upcoming trips.
* The last amazing trip was completing the Camino de Santiago. Moving across the landscape created a great appreciation for the journey.
* I have three degrees. Though I started a fourth, I am (hopefully) done with official academia.
* I am less than six degrees of separation from Kevin Bacon.
* Debt free from the education, mortgage, and car. And loving it!
* Don't drink, don't smoke. (What do you do?) Never married, no children.
* I have a good sense of humor. At least I used to! Work has stunted my sarcasm. I also don't sweat the small stuff, which is most stuff.
* People say I don't look my age. I assume they mean I look younger!
* Life is too short for football.
What I’m doing with my life
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* Bought a kayak! Used it once and promptly went into the basement.
* Recently finished a complete renovation of a Civil War-era house.
* "Who moved my cheese?" Still trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up!
* Being active is important. Love hiking and cycling. Hate solo, focussed exercise like at the dreaded gym.
* Creative outlets include mosaics and quilting.
I’m really good at
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Keeping perspective.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My crazy glasses seem to disarm (and alarm) people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to like fiction of no particular genre. My favorite writers are John Irving, Barbara Kinsolver, Haruki Murakami, and William Gibson to name a few.

Movies usually disappoint me. I never mind not watching to the end, even if it means leaving the theater. Having said that I do enjoy Raiders of the Lost Arc, The Matrix, The Princes Bride, Big Fish, Lost in Translation, Rushmore, Under a Tuscan Sun, Charade, Raise the Red Lantern...

I enjoy serialized tv shows more than movies. Buffy, Firefly, Dexter, American Horror Story, Homeland, Game of Thrones, Weeds, you get the picture. Reality tv bites. Unless you are talking about the original reality tv: PBS!

Also, my hand goes up for all in favor of NPR! Music is magical, and my tastes are all over the place. I can handle a little of just about anything. My own collection of music is quite wide and am happy to listen to something new. Unless it's garbage. But love Garbage! Right now 70s punk rock has piqued my interest. Shonen Knife is great as well as Cincinnati's own Foxy Shazam - they put a smile on my face. I love the new Chrissie Hynde.

In terms of food, I am pretty health-minded. Raw, steamed, and sometimes stewed is how I have to eat. "Food allergies" limit my diet, and I rarely eat out as I can't control how it's prepared. When confronted with a pretentious salad or nothing else on the menu, I would rather eat in.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Really, I have started over a few times and know that there is very little that is necessary. While I have a lot of "things", they are, after all, just things. However, I will attempt it. #1 sarcasm; #2 a book to read; #3 carrots; #4 corrective vision; #5 the color blue; #6 The Pixies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about where I want to go next. This may be a day hike, a weekend outing, or a longer vacation. The Lycian Way and St. Olfa's Way both sound like interesting hiking experiences. I also think about organizing a Peace Corps Swaziland reunion. Oh! And how I can swing an early retirement by investing wisely. Very important...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am usually watching a movie over a light dinner while preparing for a well-rested Saturday adventure!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a closet Blondie fan. One way or another...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am really looking for a long-term relationship. This can only happen through some common ground. Outdoor activity is essential since I spend a fair amount of time engaged there. While all this takes time to develop, and there are no guarantees, that is what I ultimately want. A best friend and life partner. Hopefully starting on a website will cut through some of the nonsense. Life is a story; I would like to hear about yours!