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hardlytrying

21 / M / straight / Single

Bloomfield Hills, Michigan

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
More than $1,000,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
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Languages
English (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

well im spencer. im 20 years of age and im in college. I want to be a psychologist, or an engineer, really the more i think about it im not sure what i want to do. something that makes me happy i hope. i really like to help other people anyway i can. ive been living here since december and im not having the easiest time meeting people. its so much different here than it was out in the country. i can be stubborn at times. i dont like to argue but i do like to have a good conversation. Im 5' 10" and about 200 pounds. i drive a car thats older than i am, that has no radio because someone robbed me lol. i am happy 100% of the time, its hard to make me upset. other than that im not so sure what i should say, if you have anything to ask, ask. if you think there is something else i should put in here let me know and i just might do it.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now i am going to college. im set on doing well so i can live some sort of life, even though i hate school. i work multiple jobs.

I’m really good at

Not lying. being who i am all the time. eating. doing simple tasks lol. making people laugh, well sometimes some people dont get me.

The first things people usually notice about me

either my hair or my eyes. some people notice that my butt is to big for my body lol. not everyone thinks that but if you do, ill laugh it up with you.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books- the dark tower series, harry potter, and the wheel of time series. Also lightning by dean koontz.

Music- I like all music but if it is up to me i choose hard rock or metal. System of A Down is my favorite band ever!!!

Movies-I love all movies. there are few movies i hate. my favorites would be A Clockwork Orange, Fight Club, anything with Gene Wilder, Pineapple Express.

Food- I love all food, except some fruits. other than that if its ok to eat i wanna try it.

The six things I could never do without

i Could never do with out my Car, Cell phone, a good shower, tooth brush, Good foods, friends/family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why i do anything, i put so much effort in to so many things and get almost nothing in return and why no matter how much sleep i get that i feel tired until the afternoon

On a typical Friday night I am

prolly working going to hillsdale doing homework or trying to find/having a good time

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is that im a very open person. if you want to know something personal just ask. www.myspace.com/spencerburt

You should message me if

your interested, bored, just want to talk to someone. If you think you know me. your not looking for a one night stand, im not ok with that.

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