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harlemsuz

32 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:46pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I grew up and went to college in the Midwest and still think of myself as a Midwesterner at heart, even though I've lived in New York for eight years now. For the most part, I love the city and am happy here. Still, I have a fair amount of wanderlust.

I like to travel off the beaten path, but I'm also pretty satisfied sitting in Central Park with an everything bagel and the New York Times (I'm a news junky and into politics.) I have a pretty dry sense of humor and am a sucker for a man who can engage in witty banter.

I do cliched New Yorker things like eat at food trucks, make fun of hipsters, spend Sunday afternoons at The Met, and stand in ridiculously long lines for mediocre brunch. I do some non-cliched things too.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a humanitarian agency. My work doesn't define me, but I find it interesting a lot of the time, in part because it lets me travel to some pretty cool places (Sierra Leone, Congo...). I spend a decent amount of time wondering what I should do next.
I’m really good at
Making people feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have an expressive face. Needless to say, I'm a terrible liar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorites are hard, but here are some authors I'm into: Milan Kundera, Jhumpa Lahiri, Jonathan Safran Foer, Nicole Krauss, Geoff Dyer, Jeffrey Eugenides, Joan Didion, and Nicholson Baker. I read a lot of non-fiction too but will spare you the drudgery of reading through a bunch of titles.

I lived in Latin America for a while and got into the music, or at least buying really cheap CDs off the street. I like a lot of other stuff too, and I also like when people introduce me to things I've never heard of.

I have pretty eclectic food tastes and will eat just about anything.
The six things I could never do without
I could technically live without these things, but they do make my life a lot better: Great friends, family, delicious food, The Daily Show, The New Yorker, and NPR.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where Michael Bloomberg learned to speak Spanish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting up with friends at a restaurant or bar, going out with co-workers for a happy hour drink, or at a concert. I'm usually pretty social on weekends, but occasionally I'm in the mood for staying home and reading a book or watching something trashy on TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is best left for pillow talk, no?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know the difference between your and you're. You're genuine and kind to others and don't take yourself too seriously. I'm not much of a game player, so it would be lovely if you were a straight shooter too.