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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:18am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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"he looks like Jimmy Fallon's lumberjack brother." -ny daily news

I own a canoe and love maps. grew up outside of boston and now live in kensington after 10 years in greenpoint. i'm obsessed with music, history, and baseball and love it when those things intersect. i wonder how my ancestors lived. i voted for nader in 2000 and don't regret it (in massachusetts). taking a ride in a 1928, open-cockpit biplane was one of the most joyful things i've ever done. i need a lot of sleep or i get cranky. i think rusty things are beautiful and neon signs are the best (i own one). i'm a seemingly contradictory combination of a planner who craves adventure (and trying a new place for brunch does not count as an adventure); sometimes i need comfort food (so to speak and also literally), sometimes randomness. i am so not a morning person. i really liked berlin and memphis (separately, of course). i would like to someday canoe or kayak the mississippi river and/or erie canal. i've been told that i give good massages. i will someday own a 1964 ford falcon that i hope to learn how to hot rod myself (though as of now i'd have no idea how). also, i knew the bride when she used to rock & roll. dustin pedroia is my spirit animal. update: or mike napoli, when he had a huge beard. i have a huge beard now.

further update: i started going to the gym. this is new.

nov '15: around oct of 2016, i'm planning to move to memphis.
What I’m doing with my life
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working in music publicity, writing songs, planning the next tour, wandering brooklyn, wandering the US.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing harmonica! and guitar. less so at banjo and keyboard. i'm good at staying up late. finding trouble. listening. parallel parking. making out. spelling. sleeping in.
The first things people usually notice about me
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beard, radio voice, big brown eyes, historical diagram tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sam shepard, bob dylan, blade runner, pulled pork, son volt and wilco, ramblin' jack elliott, lush life, white noise, star wars (the old ones), casablanca, pickles, lobster, oysters, m. ward, rushmore, howlin' wolf, the new york dolls, hound dog taylor, richard russo, tom waits, rhubarb, the band, son house, spoon, bacon, gumbo, wong kar wai, james mcmurtry, how i met your mother, todd snider (i got to open for him a few times!), winter's bone (the book), the flamin' groovies, bbq, mississippi john hurt, neko case, joe fletcher & the wrong reasons, the rolling stones, merle haggard, courtney barnett, jack oblivian

maybe the gritty stuff you're into...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my beat up acoustic guitar that feels like an extension of my body, 'exile on main street,' sobriety, seltzer, the new yorker magazine, road trips
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
who's going to be my next favorite garage rock band?

my band. check us out:

and that republicans are so malicious.

and that necks are really sexy.

backs too.

when i can get back on tour.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably at a concert or trying to find something gritty on netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i quit drinking summer 2011. it's been really great on all fronts, actually. i still like to do things that are a bit wild, but i'm trying to figure out what that means in a new sober era. oh and i have no problem with you ordering a drink in front of me on a date, if you were wondering. just please don't order neat bourbon, please.
You should message me if
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some or many of these things are true or could be true: you're a little bit country and a little bit rock and roll. we could enjoy some time together camping in vermont. you are a badass. you're don't wear lip gloss. you have a tattoo on your chest. you didn't play oregon trail as a banker because farmers are so much cooler than bankers. you've been to or would like to go to alaska. you like the banjo and/or the pedal steel guitar. you want to do some of the stuff listed here: . you own a typewriter. you're a decent writer. you embrace spontaneity. you have a tattoo or four. you have a kinky side and maybe own a pair of handcuffs. you rock leather pants. new orleans is a magical place. you aren't looking for someone with whom to have kids. You like showing off some skin in public on occasion. you have a black leather jacket. you're a little bit brash. you have long hair. you think james taylor and the lumineers both suck (separately but oh my god the power of suck if they ever dueted). you can discuss obscure rolling stones tracks. you can fix mechanical things. you have an exhibitionist streak. you do at least one thing that you aren't supposed to do because it makes you feel good, like tan or smoke or ride motorcycles. we could make each other crack up. you rock a macrame anklet. passionate kisses that leave both of us breathless are the best. this is you: . you like to snuggle. you're a night owl. sometimes like you like to be tamed. you like rockabilly music. you would make me a little bit nervous sometimes. you like fireplaces, and/or you like canoeing. you've been to a strip club. you can build a campfire. you have a favorite whiskey and/or a favorite dive bar. whatever type of music you like (preferably folk or blues or other roots), you consider it borderline sacred. you have a slightly trashy side and own some leopard print and maybe a favorite bikini. you're a wild one: . you have a plethora of good stories. when you put the toilet paper roll on, the paper goes over, not under. you are or aspire to be creative. you have a hint of recklessness or possibly more than a hint. you don't believe that being adventurous and being committed are mutually exclusive. i give you a lady boner. you are a cowgirl. you know someone with a cabin in montana. you possess true grit. and you're a rock & roll girl: