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56 Santa Rosa, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:08pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I started a new life the year I turned forty. In 1998 I took a job transfer and finally found a job I liked, and great people to work with in Santa Rosa. A lot has changed in the last 15 years of my life. I've been searching for my place in the scheme of this sometimes crazy world, but find that keeping a postive attitude is a must!
I feel I am a warm person and try to show genuine kindness to others. For me, it is a good day when I can make somone smile, or laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
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I plan on retiring from my job and getting started on the next chapter of my life. Where I work used to be good, but several years ago things took a turn and I ended up working graveyard shift. It is a challenge to work this shift and try and have a social life. So once I retire I can finally sleeps nights again. This will allow me to more fully enjoy the beauty of Sonoma County! I am really looking forward to taking walks around Spring Lake, Annadel Park, and Lake Illsanjo.
I’m really good at
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Keeping an open mind to learning. While I never really enjoy school, I discovered that I learn differently from most people. I have had many hobbies in my life, some requiring more skill than others. I want to learn to refine my cooking skills, and if I have someone special to do it with, it will be fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing I hope people notice about me is my smile, and my gentle demeanor. I am naturally friendly and like to put people at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I took up reading books four years ago, which is something I never used to enjoy. Among my favorites so far, "Uncle Tungsten: Memories of a Chemical Boyhood" Oliver Sacks, John Adams, by David Mccullough, and Le Père Goriot, by Honoré de Balzac.
I have long enjoyed classic films of the 1930's & '40's, although, I appreciate cinema from any era, providing it is well done. In 2002 I saw the film "Amelie" and was smitten with French cinema. I have watch several French films of the 1930's starring Jean Gabin, and discovered their charm.
As to food; Any food that is well prepared and not too spicy, I will enjoy. I am not a picky eater, but prefer barbecued oysters to raw ones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How was it decided six things? Why not five or seven?
1) Good Health
2) My Music, Music, & Music
2) Good Food
3) Good Friends
4) Good Films
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
About how I will spend my time in retirement. Will I really be able to retire? I want to be able to do something that will help people who need help and have no one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have any routine for Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love to sing, and yodel! My 24 year old son, who is a musician, isn't too thrilled with the yodeling.
You should message me if
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You are a kind, warm, and loving person. If you have a good wit, a nimble mind, and deep conversation sound like fun.