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31 Belleville, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 26
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me huh? Well, I'm pretty laid back. I'm a fully out gay guy born and raised in Jersey, moved to Los Angeles for 4 years then moved back to Jersey. I have my own apartment I share with my best friend since 4th grade and I work a 9-5 job in an office.

I'm pretty friendly, like conversation and those who can hold one. (I probably talk way too much actually)I like geeky stuff like video games, anime, comics, super heroes, cosplay etc.

I also like horror movies, swimming, running, biking, walking around the mall, being goofy etc. I'm big on playful sarcasm and goofing around with friends, making dumb jokes etc.

I also have an active imagination and always wanted to be a super hero in my mind. So my style of dress can sometimes range upon something you'd find in an anime or video game (like wearing goggles or fingerless gloves randomly).

I'm the kinda guy who dreams of a fairy tale happy ending with a wonderful guy who compliments my personality and I compliment his and we live happily ever after. But, I'm too much a realist and know it's not that easy.

And despite favoring writing, I'm terrible at these about me sections (though apparently I'm great at answering questions as okcupid says I've answered every question on the site and they have no more for me to answer :/)

As far as dating goes, I'm a very monogamous guy. I'm looking for that one special guy out there. If you're just looking for a quick fling or something casual, that's not me. I don't like dating multiple guys at once or vice versa.

I'm also pretty direct and blunt, open and honest and nothing resembling a prude. Suffice to say like most guys, I'm a horny bastard and sexual compatibility is important. However, unlike most guys, it's not 'all' I care about, and I'm not looking for casual sex. I want a guy who can be my best friend and my lover at the same time. I want that whole romantic ideal. I wanna see each other frequently, play video games and watch movies, go out to eat, ride roller coasters, explore some new place, have hot sex, then go watch more tv, play more games etc. until we start all over again the next day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at 9-5 job in an office. Still trying to break into the biz with my writing while paying the bills at the same time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others and being a shoulder to lean on. That or making ridiculously over the top jokes and beating a dead horse until it's mulch. Whichever you prefer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes I guess?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

Scott Pilgrim Vs the World, Stay, Nightmare Before Christmas, Repo: the Genetic Opera, Hairspray, Batman Returns, Beetlejuice, X-men Series, Palindromes, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Silent Hill, and more.


Buffy, Angel, DollHouse, Supernatural, Nikita, RuPaul's Drag Race, Tabatha Takes Over, X-men, Batman, Justice League, Desperate Housewives, Dexter, Once Upon a Time, Walking Dead, and more.


Goldfinger, Julien-K, Madonna, Three Days Grace, The Bangles, The B52's, Crush 40, Paula Abdul, Donna Summer, Bonnie Tyler and more.


Italian, Chinese, American
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Video Games/Gadgets
My Sense of Humor
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When my dashing prince will finally find the 'other castle' I'm in.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wondering how the other races in FFXIV aren't constantly tripping over all the Lalafell's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wear tighty whities most of the time, and I find them incredibly comfortable and sexy. If you do too, all the better.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to chat and joke, have some confidence (without being arrogant or self absorbed), are playful and flirty, into geeky stuff etc. Basically if you think we'd be a good match, message away!

Oh and if I visited your profile but didn't message you, I may just have been busy at the time and didn't get a chance or forgot. Always worth a shot to shoot me a message. Worst I can do is not be interested.