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57 • Memphis, TN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, and very serious about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
"To be a man, precisely, is to take responsibility."
The code I try to live by is: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind... And... You shall love your neighbor as yourself."
I love to read.
I love good music.
I love good coffee... especially Cuban coffee!
I love a delicious meal... especially if shared with someone special...
I love to prepare a delicious meal... especially for someone special...
I love to swing dance.
I'd love to learn Salsa dancing.
I keep my living space neat and tidy.
I love thunderstorms.
Or just a gentle rainfall.
Movies: Anything with Humphery Bogart... for the matter of that, most any Classic Film. The films of Jacques Tati, "Alphaville", "Seven Samurai", "The Best Years of Our Lives", anything with John Wayne, "Barefoot In the Park", "The Odd Couple", "The Out-of-Towners" (the original version), "Planes, Trains, Automobiles", "Casino", "Goodfellas", the films of Laurel and Hardy...
Music: Primarily Blues and Jazz... favorite Blues artists: Little Walter, Elmore James, William Clarke, Howlin' Wolf, Sonny Boy Williamson, Carey Bell, Charlie Musslewhite, Big Joe and the Dynaflows
favorite Jazz artists: Miles Davis, Charlie Parker, The New York Voices, Manhattan Transfer, Dexter Gordon...
TV: N.C.I.S., Mad Men, Classic Shows like Andy Griffith, Dick Van Dyke, "The Honeymooners", "The Wild, Wild West", "The Man From U.N.C.L.E."; also Classic British shows like "Fawlty Towers", "Good Neighbors", "All Creatures, Great and Small", "Upstairs, Downstairs".
Food: Indian, Cuban, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican, sushi, Southern.
A kitchen to cook in
Good Jazz on the radio...
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