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55 / M / Straight / Single

Memphis, Tennessee

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My favorite quote comes from the book "Wind, Sand, and Stars" :

"To be a man, precisely, is to take responsibility."

The code I try to live by is: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind... And... You shall love your neighbor as yourself."

I love to read.
I love good music.
I love good coffee... especially Cuban coffee!
I love a delicious meal... especially if shared with someone special...
I love to prepare a delicious meal... especially for someone special...
I love to swing dance.
I'd love to learn Salsa dancing.
I keep my living space neat and tidy.
I love thunderstorms.
Or just a gentle rainfall.
What I’m doing with my life
Work in a medical lab full-time, part-time Blues harmonica player.
I’m really good at
Cooking, playing Blues harmonica.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "Wind, Sand, and Stars", "Shogun", "The Hobbit", "The Lord of the Rings", "Boy's Life", any book by Barbara Tuchman, all of the ORIGINAL James Bond novels (by Ian Fleming), anything by P.G. Wodehouse, the Charlie Chan novels, anything by John le Carre, the Bible, the writings of the Church Fathers, "The Glory and the Dream"... and many more.

Movies: Anything with Humphery Bogart... for the matter of that, most any Classic Film. The films of Jacques Tati, "Alphaville", "Seven Samurai", "The Best Years of Our Lives", anything with John Wayne, "Barefoot In the Park", "The Odd Couple", "The Out-of-Towners" (the original version), "Planes, Trains, Automobiles", "Casino", "Goodfellas", the films of Laurel and Hardy...

Music: Primarily Blues and Jazz... favorite Blues artists: Little Walter, Elmore James, William Clarke, Howlin' Wolf, Sonny Boy Williamson, Carey Bell, Charlie Musslewhite, Big Joe and the Dynaflows
favorite Jazz artists: Miles Davis, Charlie Parker, The New York Voices, Manhattan Transfer, Dexter Gordon...

TV: N.C.I.S., Mad Men, Classic Shows like Andy Griffith, Dick Van Dyke, "The Honeymooners", "The Wild, Wild West", "The Man From U.N.C.L.E."; also Classic British shows like "Fawlty Towers", "Good Neighbors", "All Creatures, Great and Small", "Upstairs, Downstairs".

Food: Indian, Cuban, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican, sushi, Southern.
The six things I could never do without
God
My family
My friends
A kitchen to cook in
Good books
Good Jazz on the radio...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working (I work all night.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If anything here strikes your fancy.