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harpsichordsrule

29 Saint Louis, MO Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 21–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:11am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm an extrovert who loves to learn about others. Perhaps that's why I got my Journalism degree from Mizzou. I love a good laugh, especially if I provoked it.

Music is my passion. I play drums, guitar, bass and a little keyboard. I write music for my band and sometimes play a supporting role in other bands. I love to go out and be social, though every once in a while I'll need some down time (i.e. Netflix).

I think I can fool others if I try, but deep down I'm fairly nerdy. This means I pore through album liner notes, try to find hidden levels in video games and know the names of tv/music/video game/pop culture critics. Recently I've diversified my geekiness by cutting back on games and getting into comics.

Finally, I love to run, and I love dogs.

UPDATE: So I've recently come to the determination that I'm bisexual, or at the very least, heteroflexible. I've always harbored some interest, but kind of shied away from acknowledging or acting on it. I still prefer girls, and I'm unsure if I could be romantically into men. It's all fairly new to me and I'm still feeling it out. I'm not ruling out that this is a phase, though I doubt that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to play as much music as I can. I play with/book for/promote my band, Other People, and recently joined another band called Aquitaine as a drummer. I'm also Stray Dog Theatre's go-to drummer when they produce musicals (we just finished an exhausting but rewarding run of Funny Girl). And I fill in for my dad's band when their drummer can't make it. Finally, I try fit the word "drummer" into my writing as much as possible.

Now that the musical is over, I have a bit more free time to resume writing as a freelancer for Riverfront Times, Eleven and whoever else will have me. Add all that to a good office job, and that's me at the moment.

Now, because I'm a shameless cad, here is my upcoming show schedule. As pathetic as it is to use this site to promote my work, this is actually a good way to get a sense of me without necessarily talking to me. You'll hear my stupid banter on stage, and you can determine whether I really look like I do in the photos:

10/11 Other People at The Demo

10/30 Other People at The Heavy Anchor

11/7 Aquitaine at Off Broadway.

Who knows, you could end up realizing we're a bad fit before we meet and do this to me: http://www.vanyaland.com/2014/06/06/watch-guy-shambles-get-rejected-songs-bands-show/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, writing, conversation, humor (at least I think so)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Electric Six, The Kinks, Spoon, Supergrass, Queens of the Stone Age, Future of the Left, Pretty & Nice, Elvis Costello, XTC... I can go on and on.

TV: Arrested Development, Brooklyn 9-9, Community, Parks and Rec, Eagleheart, Conan, Breaking Bad, The Wire, Orange is the new Black.

Comedians: Louis C.K, Norm MacDonald, Neil Hamburger, Brian Kiley, Patton Oswalt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, music, the internet, running, comedy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a concert.
You should message me if
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You like to sing karaoke.

You like video games.

You have a passion for something, creative or practical.

You like what you see here.