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21 F Oberlin, OH

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  • Ages 19–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:53pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I care a lot about books and dogs and netflix and progressive politics and theater and pedagogy and wearing glitter all over.

I've been working with seventh graders for three years now, and I'm starting to think I might want to spend the rest of my life like that.

This year I started teaching Shakespeare performance to middle schoolers. We're doing As You Like It this summer.

I'm an English and Comparative American Studies double major and a Gender, Sexuality, and Feminist Studies minor, and I'm not interested in meeting anyone who wouldn't take me seriously based on what I'm studying.

I cook dinner for 90 people once a week in my co-op. It's wild and powerful and always on the verge of disaster, which is how I like my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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making friends, reading books, dancing to beyonce (poorly), making crafts of all kinds, registering voters, cooking for my co-op, feeling anxious, changing majors, acting in plays, tutoring middle schoolers, throwing theme parties, sleeping when i can, reading more books
I’m really good at
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explaining critical theory to my dad
hangin with 12 year olds
The first things people usually notice about me
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big glasses, silly hair, lanky legs, very clumsy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: invisible man, fun home, sula, the brief and wondrous life of oscar wao, to the lighthouse, a room of one's own, margaret atwood, harriet the spy, lorrie moore, tony kushner and shakespeare and tons of playwrights in between

movies: who's afraid of virginia woolf, angels in america, anything by charlie kaufman, what's eating gilbert grape, west side story, waiting for guffman, sabrina, life is beautiful, cabaret, hedwig and the angry inch, all about eve, the parent trap always and forever amen

music: moslty the wordy brainy divas of the 1970s
mostly joni mitchell.
also fiona apple, stevie nicks, lou reed, le tigre, rufus wainwright, carole king, janis joplin, bob dylan, tegan and sara, joan baez, tracy chapman, salt n peppa, the carpenters, laurie anderson, anais mitchell, patti smith, nellie mckay, waxahatchee, regina spektor, etc etc
beyonce beyonce beyonce beyonce beyonce beyonce
((i also love musicals a lot it's whatevr))

tv: arrested development, strangers with candy, the office before michael scott left, parks and recreation, the west wing, curb your enthusiasm, upstairs downstairs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better listener
sleep vs fun vs work
weird dogs
how to engage in social justice work without using activism/radical politics as social capital
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wearing glitter with friends
leaving the party early to watch a jane goodall documentary on netflix and drunk eat all the bread in my co-op
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm genuinely upset okcupid doesn't think i'm well read
You should message me if
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you're a good listener with a lot to say
you know where my username comes from
you wanna cook together