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My self-summary
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Okay, to simply put it, I grew up in upstate NY, I have an intellectual Gov't job, I'm a stocky 5'9 1/2", I'm funny, a bit goofy, kinda geeky, supportive, caring, a gentleman, an introvert, muscular, but I'm far from being a muscle head! I believe in being well rounded: I enjoy a wide range of music, art, movies, & performing art, physical activities such as: hiking, biking, camping, fishing, (years ago I lost interest in hunting), weight lifting, learning, nutrition, and stimulating my mind regularly. On a typical weekday, I de-stress by going to the gym for an hour and when its nice out, I like to catch some sun for awhile and maybe listen to some meditation music. Fringe sciences fascinate me! I have 2 degrees and close to a couple more. I had some pretty interesting jobs before, such as working in a fish cannery in Alaska, the FBI, landscaper, demolition, U.S. Army, and pre-k substitute teacher. For my current job, I'm a technical specialist. I'm not allowed to say what I do on a public forum, but it's rewarding! I did go to church weekly, but as an adult I moved away from organized religion and became more spiritual. In high school, I majored in business and music!

What I'm NOT looking for is someone who is bossy, believes they're entitled, ditzy, out of shape, refuses to break a sweat or get some dirt on them, and treats dining out as their hobby.

Umm...I guess what I am looking for is the opposite of a "southern belle": a strong, independent, educated (nerdy is sexy), and physically active girl!
What I’m doing with my life
My job is pretty cool and makes me proud that I have an influence on saving lives.
I'm fascinated with the paranormal, fringe science, and quantum physics.
Pursuing a fit mind and fit body
(hopefully you are too).
I’m really good at
Being a friend.
Being supportive.
Being trusted.
Bringing humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm shy at first.
I'm muscular.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I can't miss The Walking Dead.
I listen to all genres of music. It depends on what I'm doing. I even enjoy bluegrass/folk but I'm not into country.
I'll watch any movie as long as it's well written and acted, but I really enjoy drama comedies.
Coast to Coast radio show.
The six things I could never do without
My sense of humor.
The sun -nothing else makes me feel so happy.
Trust -once you lose it, it's gone forever.
Sharing myself with others.
Being in nature.
The internet- I need instant access to information.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve myself.
My future; am I on the right path?
The meaning of everything.
I tend to over analyzing things, so I waste energy worrying about stupid things (see I'm doing it now!)
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have about 10 containers of hummus in my fridge!