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harvgrotto

45 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The FUNNY: Hmm, this is tough, so let me jot down a few notes first...let's see, I am fat, bald, unemployed and like to sit around in my underwear and watch soap operas...no, that's no good...what about...I am buff with very large muscles, I drive a Mustang and am pretty much a sex machine...Hmm, not quite right...ok...what about this...I am a true genius, with a very high IQ! I invented gravity, the theory of relativity and silly putty... hehe...hmm, that still just doesn't sound quite right...

The SERIOUS: Maybe I should just put it simply...I'm a bright and confident guy with a sense of humor and a very happy outlook on life. I'm hoping to meet a girl that I can make smile.

I love to meet new people and I get along with just about anyone. I like films, art, theater, museums, and all sorts of music...indie, classical, jazz, hiphop. I'm always looking to explore new places for food, crafty cocktails, or just hanging out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying my best to enjoy it :) I love my work, I'm a director of production at a digital ad agency, which is definitely a focus but equally important is spending time with friends and family, finding new adventures, trying to feed my creative juices and travel.

I love to travel and explore new places. Off the list so far are Costa Rica, Hawaii, Paris, Rome, Barcelona, Arles, Dublin, Brussels, Tokyo, London, Taipei, and my favorite of all time Florence.

Oh..and I wrote a children's book.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I set my mind to. I think this is true of most people if they really want something to happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure. I never asked. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fav books...Just finished World War Z and am now reading Games of Thrones. I also like some of the classics, Great Gatsby and most writings of John Steinbeck, John Irving and Tennessee Williams...Oh and I also like Elliot Cleans His Room, a great new children's book written by someone I know....:)

Fav movies...Raging Bull, Love in the Time of Cholera, Taxi Driver, Lost in Translation to name a few.

Music...The Pixies, Elvis Costello, Dean Martin, Geraint Watkins, Joy Division, Trash Can Sinatras, Pavor Stelar, LCD Soundsystem, Belle & Sebastian, Vivaldi and more.

TV... I don't watch a lot but am hooked on GOT and miss Breaking Bad. I loved 30 Rock too.

Food...yes, I like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Travel plans
A good playlist
My Honda Ruckus
Time Out NY
Central Park
A good sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what I should spend my time thinking about :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or coworkers trying to entertain ourselves after what was probably a rough but satisfying week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a bit of a romantic...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like me to grab a drink or two sometime and see what happens.