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41 M Austin, TX

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
i'm real lucky. I live in an amazing city with an amazing job and amazing friends. I moved to Austin in 2009 to open up a dance club and boy am I glad I did. My strengths are not in business but in knowing how to entertain a certain demographic that manages to include, hipsters, homos and douchebags and surprisingly I've managed to create an environment where, for the most part, the three peacefully coexist. I love my "Job" and what i've created here in Austin but my work environment doesn't exactly provide me with the ideal dating material for someone my age. So here I am. On okcupid. And while i'm 40, in spirit I feel closer to 30 and my work continues to keep me young as i've found that Austin in general keeps most Austinites young.
Currently, i'm expanding my business into Houston where I hope to have things up and running by early September. In the meantime, and until that ship is sailing itself I'll be commuting between Houstin and Austin.
What I’m doing with my life
living the dream.
I’m really good at
Eating out.
Knowing if a song is going to be a dance floor smash after one listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
If i'm clean shaven and smiling (and hopefully i'm smiling), three dimples. 2 cheek, 1 chin.
if i'm at work, who's the old guy.
if i don't have a hat on, male pattern baldness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
stuff that is good. i know what is good. sometimes its what you think is bad. and that's ok.

i'll elaborate. what i think is good.

Movies - Win Win. Harold and Maude. Sideways. Cold Mountain. Atonement. Gone with the wind. (apparently i have a thing for periodical romance) Sunrise. The Apartment. those come to mind. and documentaries yum yum.

Music - wow. Ok i've been a DJ for a long long long time (I know, everyone's a DJ!) and i've dj'ed nearly every genre there is, Indie, electro, jazz, 80's , ALTERNATIVE (do you remember when INDIE was alternative), classic soul, you name it. So i like purdy much everything. But all time faves - miles davis, neil young, van morrison, lcd soundsystem. that works. oh and fresh air with terri gross - not music but one listens to it.

books - ocean sea, neverland, cormac mccarthy, non fiction, haven't read a fiction book that I LOVED in a while. currently rereading the brother's karamazov. Just finished war and peace after a five month struggle... can't recommend it.

shows - Mad Men. Used to love Battlestar Galactica reboot. Game of thrones is surprisingly VERY good. hate walking dead, true blood and other supposedly good shows.

food - yes. Food.
The six things I could never do without
music. books. friends. family. exploring. yoga.

I had sex up there and then it occurred to me that I've gone LONG periods w/o sex so I can obviously do without it! :/
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how lucky i am. how unlucky some are. music. the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
If i'm not at my club i'm usually on the east side eating and drinking with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i actually watched American Idol last season. Joshua Ledet. Joshua MFin' Ledet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating