When I die, and everybody is standing around my coffin talking, here's what I want them to say: "She was kind." "She was generous." "She helped a lot of people / made a lot of lives better." "She really supported her children." "She lived her life according to her values." "She truly demonstrated the right way to be." "We will miss her." "She was loved."
I'm trying to make sure that all of that comes true. Some of them are larger challenges than others!