I am hoping that you will recognize the qualities that are special and unique to me, and for you, for those are the qualities that will already have in common. I am talking about the fine separation between the men and boys. I believe that men bond and women have feelings, what I am saying is when You gain my trust, you win my heart and you have a friend for life.
I want to say, “ I am a very easy going kind of guy that tries not to take life too seriously”, but I would be lying. I would like to be more easy going, and that is where you come in, your laughter, your smile, the way you wear you sensuality, will allow me to open my heart and nothing will seem insurmountable, because you have my back, and I most certainly, will have yours. It is just the way I am wired.
My life has always been wrapped around work; but it is time for me to branch out and find someone that will enjoy our time together.
A large part of being what I call a good man is being a provider, and a good one at that. But I have paid a big price, a huge mistake, thinking I was going to be valued and appreciated for all of my sacrifice and effort and well ….It is clear as a bell now, that my priority is to establish a relationship based on each others emotional needs and concerns and that can only happen if I am to bond with you by spending time with you. Don’t get me wrong, I just don’t want to have to bury you out of your financial problems, I will help with advice as long as you accept it and use it.
I am a loyal friend, I pride myself as having the character to PROTECT NOT POSSESS my lover and friends. I do not want to control you or change you or evoke such feelings inside you. I want to succeed at making sure you feel safe with me. I am not a bully, I have no desire or need to make you feel small so I can feel tall. I want to help you grow, take pride as I see you blossom and grow and feel good about yourself and know inside that I am there to help not hinder.
I am not commitment phobic. I know this as I have survived being married for 24 years. And let the truth be known I could have gone the distance and would have as I am not a believer in this” throw away” world that we live in. I do not think that the grass is always greener somewhere else and I hope you don’t believe that also. I need to feel safe in a relationship, not wondering when the next time you might just decide to leave based on what you think, instead of talking out the problems.
It makes me smile when I get to enjoy the outdoors; like taking the motor home out to the desert and taking my sand toys for a spin. I enjoy getting out of LA once in awhile. I welcome the opportunity to have a partner in crime, and am really looking forward to my world opening up to your life. Clearly, I do not want the “Energizer Bunny”, I want more fun in my life without having to be responsible for creating it. I am looking for someone to take care of me that way.
Baggage is a funny word, and let’s faces it; you can not be our age and not have it. Baggage and drama, are not the same to me, if we are lucky, we all have an aging parent. We are all a package deal, like I said I am a big boy and I get that, but what we do with the baggage, and how one handles it, is the drama I am Not willing to invite into my life. The greatest thing that can happen is to find someone you care about and that baggage just starts to disappear on it own.
I am looking for a lady that is pleased with herself; and what God has given. I want her to be comfortable with herself; and not try to please everyone; just the important ones- like me. I am very attracted to the quality of woman that is pleased with what she does and wears her accomplishments as a badger of honor. It does not matter the title of her accomplishments, what matters is she takes ownership and celebrates her personal best.
I have a lot to offer the right woman - now you do the math and I am looking forward to your finalized equation. If you have read this far I welcome your questions or comments.