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33 Cayce, SC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 22
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Dropped out of university
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Poly-friendly, geeky bisexual male. Best way to describe me. I go by Keith most times. The other times, its other nicknames people have chosen to call me. Currently single, separated from my soon-to-be-ex-wife.

I am looking for friends, hopefully turning into a serious relationship. I'm at the age where I am ready to settle down with the one I love, enjoy our time together. I'm not into playing games, I value honesty and understanding. I hope that I can find that person.

Honestly the best way to put it is in a frameset of Doctor Who references:
I want a relationship like Amy and Rory, all together or not at all. I'm as loyal and fiercely protective, and would wait a thousand years just to see you again.
I want a woman like River Song who puts me in my place for wanting to be 'cool', with a sassy attitude and wit.
I want loving eyes like Rose and Martha gave the Doctor (except I will return my love lol)
I want a best friend like Donna, whom I can have witty conversations with and do strange over the top adventures with.
I want a partner like Clara who can stare into my eyes with love and devotion, keep me in my place when I need it, and make me realize just how great the man I can be, how great that man I am.
I want a companion to whom I can explore all of time and space with, daring adventures, or just sitting at home with.

I'm a geek at heart, playing video games. pen and paper roleplaying games. LARPs, and don't mind meeting other like-minded polyamorous people. Geek-of-all-trades, Master of none. Meaning I tend to know a lot of geek things but I don't spaz out over any particular thing. I like anime, scifi movies and dramas, various music, video games, RPGs, conventions, toys, cartoons, comics, manga, robots, zombies, bacon, piggies, etc.

I am quirky, Piscean, and fluffyhaired. I also have a super-smart 8-year old son from a previous marriage that I see occasionally.
What I’m doing with my life
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I travel a lot for work, doing security installations for the military. But I call Columbia my home due to my family and son living here, as well as my office. Most months I spend an average of 1-2 weekends. But willing to talk on the phone and txts as often as I can with friends, loved ones.

Playing Final Fantasy XIV on the Faerie server. Just got the game and loving it. Tried Warlords of Draenor/WoW, but its still the same old game. Blah.

Working on my own larp. Was playing a game called Dark Passage, but had a falling out with staff because of stuff going on in my personal life with my soon-to-be-ex-wife. I came the conclusion that if I couldn't join them, I might as well beat them. And I feel pretty optimistic in that regard. I'm hoping once I get the basic rules and world done, I will try to make a tabletop version and then try a Kickstarter or Indiegogo to raise funds to see it happen.

Currently looking for new loves and friends to enjoy my life with, maybe find someone to be a bit more serious with in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Apparently writing VERY long profiles! And Emails!

Discussing Scifi shows and movies. I have WAY too many theories on Heroes and Doctor Who!

Cheating at video games (either with cheat devices, codes, or FAQs)

Listening and talking. Communication is key to anything.

Being funny. Apparently either my sense of Keith-logic, my fluffy hair, or well me makes people laugh. Or at least thumping themselves in the head and groaning cause I'm awful. I like seeing people smile, laughing. I will dance, dance if I have to, I will do a stupid dance, cause if you don't dance the dance, then you're no friend of mine.

Using my tongue. =P
The first things people usually notice about me
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My flufftastic hair. For some reason, the ladies just LOVE the hair. It's fluffy. Its long. Its curly. People just love running their hands through it. Hell I love it when they do! What more can I say?
I'm growing it out own again, and its in the awkward stage.

My eyes. I wear glasses and tend to not look too many people in the eye, mainly because I'm a bit shy at first. But if you see my eyes, you know you have my attention. I tend to do that a lot when I'm talking to the women I like a lot. I also love looking at other people's eyes, especially blue/green. Brown's good, just not used to it lol.

I'm also tall (6'3") and "fluffy" (about 200). I tend to dress pretty casual, jeans/khakis or shorts, geeky t-shirts or just plain casual ones. Nothing fancy, though I hope to acquire a kllt or a full suit-n-tie setup in the near future.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Eragon, Eldest, The Belgarion Collection, the Mallorean Collection, the Dreamers Collection. Song of Ice and Fire series and the Wildcards series by George R R Martin. I'm starting on Dennis L. Mckirren right now.

Scifi - Matrix series
Fantasy - LotR Trilogy
Comedy/Romance - The Wedding Singer

Mostly Scifi stuff. Love Doctor Who, BSG, All the Stargate Series, Continuum. Also love Borgia (not to be confused with The Borgias, this is a WAY better series). Pretty much if its on Netflix, I'm usually watching it.

Music: Anime music (Gundam, Naruto, or any anime music I find interesting), Game music, remixes of Anime, remixes of Game, remixes of music in general, Pop, Rock, Soundtracks

Food: I love sushi, or rather just California rolls, crabstick on rice, and shrimp on rice. I love BACON and steaks, and I enjoy cooking both. I enjoy veggies when I remember to get them. I like to make chili occasionally. I love spaghetti and mushrooms. I could never be without my chili cheese burrito from Taco Hell. I generally can eat most things, as long as they aren't TOO spicy. And I'm always willing to try new things at least once. I'm also a good cook. I've worked at Waffle House and have pretty much been the main cook in most of my relationships. Its a major turn on for me to have people compliment or just love my cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My heart (I'm a hopeful romantic)
My Son Brody
My amazing and awesome Friends
My wonderful Family
Computer, cause well its my workhouse
Life, cause well I do kinda enjoy living.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things to discuss with the my loves(mostly politics and geeky stuff).

Sex and how awesome I think (scratch that KNOW) I am at it

How to survive either a robot uprising, Grey Goo, or a zombie apocalypse

Why God didn't grant me superpowers

Superpowers I think God should grant me, including energy blasts for blasting slow moving traffic. Or atleast some form of telekenetics or gravity control. Flying would be nice too.

Cuddling, romantic evenings


How ratio of how many questions people answer on here compared to me and how they end up with high matches, and what exactly are they matching.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Checking into a hotel room for the weekend. Sad isnt it. Lol

Usually staying up way late playing FFXIV. Or checking out people online for chatting and such.

If I had a solid relationship, it would probably be going out on a date, simple or whatnot, cuddling afterwords. Just sharing our life together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I started out in May of '13 becoming poly after learning my wife had been cheating on me with a guy from the larp we just started. After nearly trying for a year to work things out, we concluded it won't work. Its sad to say another marriage did not work out for me. Not one person is totally to blame, but we did try.

I'm poly-friendly. I struggle way too much with trying to love multiple people in the same way, so I'm fine with being someone's secondary or primary and them having other partners. Its just the way I date, I put a lot of effort into it and to pull my attention into multiple directions seems to counter my own methods, if that makes any sense. But willing to learn.

But I am also not opposed to a strictly mono relationship either, atleast when it comes to love. I guess I'm more open to swinging or sharing my partners, but my heart really has a hard time loving more than one person equally.

I'm bisexual, and trying to be more open and okay with it myself. I would like to explore dating a man, one who is bisexual and might be attractive/attracted to my loves, if there is an attraction there. I enjoy sharing my loves with people, seeing people being pleasured and happy.

I am also into BDSM, various aspects. Below in the message me portion of the page is my Fetlife account. Viewer discretion is advised. I am open to dating both men and women, and couples, and even transgendered people.
You should message me if
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You'd like to talk with me about the poly lifestyle or even about dating me.

You like geeky guys who are bi.

You want to chat period.

You totally got that Doctor Who theme and find it interesting.

AIM: simplegeekace
Fetlife (NSFW):