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havoctma

37 / M / Straight / Single

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well it's a new year and a new intro. I'm a geek, and you could say I'm educated. I'm fairly easy going and i like to keep things that way if at all possible. I enjoy going out to special events and chilling at home equally. I'm just looking to meet new people, and have new experiences. I'll admit to a little social awkwardness one my part but everyone has some jitters about this online dating thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Full disclosure: I'm a drug and alcohol counselor at a place I'm not going to talk about. I'm not in love with the work but it gets the job done. I'm looking towards other fields of interest that take a creative twist. Creativity is an area I'm good with but networking not so much.
I’m really good at
*Loyalty
*Random trivia
*Hooking up AV equipment
*Sizing things up
*Typing with my eyes closed
*Karaoke
*Sounding like a cat
*Drinking liquids quickly
*Creating stupid things
The first things people usually notice about me
I initially come off as quiet, reserved (you could say brooding) but it's just an unfortunately well honed barrier. I like meeting new people and can sometimes be hard to shut up once I'm feeling too comfortable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Deadpool, The Time Machine, A Wrinkle in Time. I was really into Joss Whedon's run on Astonishing X-men. I'm trying to get into reading more. I'd love some suggestions. I've got a Kindle app so I just need to find the right material. I really like classic sci fi, so the i'm re-reading some of HG Wells work.

Movies: Here's a brief sample: Aliens, Fight Club, Signs, Ghost in the Shell, Children of Men, Blazing Saddles, Face/Off, 300, Full Metal Jacket, The Bourne series, The Hangover, 40 Year old Virgin, District 9, Kick Ass, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World. Honestly there are a lot to mention...too many, some of which are a little embarrassing. It's probably best to ask how I feel about a movie or suggest one that you're fond of.

Music: my tastes are fairly broad so here's some examples: Beastie Boys, Rage Against the Machine, Yoko Kanno, The Pillows, Slipknot, P!nk, No Doubt, I really like movie scores, seriously just ask me about this one too. Sometimes I really dig just listening to Pandora and Spotify.

Protip: Check out the soundtrack the Halo series of video games. You might be surprised by what you hear.

Food: Sushi, Chinese (okay the Americanized version of Chinese food), Italian (too bad bread makes you fat), burgers, fair food, and I have dabbled in Vegan Cuisine. I'm typically very open to trying new foods. I dig Wholefoods and other analogous places from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
my sister...she is one of the most important people in my life.
My sense of humor...If you can't laugh at yourself...
My sense of duty...It gets me to the finish line when I don't what to be there.
Instrumentals.
My iPhone...Not a fanboy but I dig this thing big time.
Video Games...there I said it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Very silly things, random facts about things no one will ever ask me about. Why we don't have flying cars or jet packs everywhere (Damn over promising Back to the Future II). Unfortunately I spend a long of time in my head and over think things. A good smack to the back of the head should snap me outta it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing a video game, watching a movie with friends, or watching stand up comedy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've seen the movie Serenity 7 times in the theater. Honestly not the most private but if I said so here then what would I talk about later.
P.S. I find well done tattoo work on a women to be a very attractive thing.
P.P.S I had a fear of the Bermuda Triangle when I was younger.
P.P.P.S I have arachnophobia and have punched a spider once.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're awesome.
You don't mind or actually enjoy conversations about comic books, movies, and video games.
If you'd like to play some Co-op on Xbox live...or little closer.
If you wanna play tennis...yeah I can do that too, just not very well.
Just want someone to chill and hangout with no romantic pretenses.
If you understand the binary language of moisture vaporators.
If you have some interest in fantasy/sci fi/video gaming.