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  • Ages 21-42
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Last online
Nov 10
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I'm a musician, and I'd say that pretty much influences a lot of how I live my life -- I travel a lot, I'm often excited about some new music project, and I thrive on things that inspire me.

born in Brooklyn, raised in NJ, left for a while to live and study in the mid-west (Ohio), came back east 15 years ago and have been living in NYC since. Nursing dreams of turning my back on this crazy Northeast Corridor existence in favor of a different crazy existence in Rio or maybe Tokyo or maybe someplace else. Though I challenge anyone to stand in the middle of the Brooklyn Bridge on a beautiful day and not love this city.
What I’m doing with my life
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making music. I play guitar -- classical, experimental, rock, jazz... -- but I also am involved with recording a lot, I own and run a small independent record label, and when I can carve out some time, I write my own music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
honesty, seeing all sides of a situation, focusing on one side of a situation, adapting, navigating new transit systems
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm really not sure...I know that I usually notice the first thing people notice about me, and it always tells me a lot about them. So maybe they are noticing me noticing things about them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Haruki Murakami, Milan Kundera, Wallace Stegner, James Baldwin, Nadine Gordimer, Italo Calvino, Arundhati Roy, Ian McEwan, Heschel, Buber, Salman Rushdie, Vonnegut.
film - Coen Bros, Almodovar, Hitchcock, Bergman.
Music is hard for me to narrow down... spend a lot of time with Bach, Beethoven, Brahms, Coltrane, Nina Simone, Zeppelin, Ali Akbar Khan, Kishori Amonkar, Miles Davis, Bill Frisell, Red House Painters/Sun Kil Moon, Magnolia Electric Company, early Genesis, Toumani Diabate, Bruce Springsteen, Ella, Joni Mitchell, Dire Straits.

food: baklava and all of its cousins. Indian, Japanese, and Thai cuisine. Penne and broccoli rabe with sausage in a garlic and oil sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a guitar, honest people, the ocean, mystery,
intuition, public radio
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
beauty, inspiration, justice/injustice, creativity, rhythm, my next gig, how if everyone in the US meditated the world would be a much better place. how if I meditated more I might think the US was a better place and a worse place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
maybe playing a gig or going to hear a friend perform or looking for the perfect Jameson on the rocks. Even though they all taste the same.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think Phil Collins is a good songwriter
You should message me if
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you choose real life over demographically targeted, market researched, pre-packaged existence