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haynesd

22 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Evansville, Indiana

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
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Long-distance penpals
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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I am analytical, insightful, and adventuring-seeking.

My Self-Summary

I like analyzing and dissecting and making connections. I'm very unlikely to go along with with things, "because thats just how we always do it," unless it's been evaluated and proven to be the most efficient and low-heaviness choice, for better or worse. I like to leave my options open, and always reconsider things, which can often turn into indecision and inaction. Parents divorced in 2nd grade. Grew up in my dads house. My mom always lived within an hour of me. My half brother Micah grew up in the same town. My friend Trent is practically family to me and we've been friends since sometime in elementary school.

I like random hobbies, which I often explode in interest in initially. My longest lasting ones include lock-picking, yo-yo's, computers/electronics, and knowing random statistics on everything. I'm really into philosophy/religion, health, technology, sociology, psychology, demographics, and international relations. I spend a lot of my time in music, whether playing, reading about it, or creating it via software and recording equipment. I have a pet cockatiel and am also really into birds in general. I love stand up comedy over any other form of entertainment really. My favorite thing is the outdoors and outdoor activity. I like unplanned discussions.

I have a lot of beliefs. Usually deriving ideas from buddhism, society of friends, native american spirituality, american transcendentalism, existentialism, nihilism, and most of all secular humanism. I'm kind of a hippy as well.
I believe heavily in equality, minimizing the force of marketing, removing the weight of stereotypes of genders and sexuality, especially among the youth and children.

What I’m doing with my life

Almost done with undergrad, which will earn me a music management degree and business administration minor. I'm a flute player (minus stereotypes) and play many other things as well, my personal favorite being irish music on tin whistle.

I’m really good at

See my interests in self-summary. And add on kissing.

The first things people usually notice about me

I make horrible first impressions, but after about a day or so of knowing me, I appear to be a totally different person, so i hear. People originally notice me to be shallow and kind of nervous, but then I am unveiled to be the most depth-ful person people know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Coming soon...

The six things I could never do without

-My mac laptop,
-my cellphone,
-my coffee mug,
-my dice (i carry two dice around because i can't stand to not have something to fiddle with in my hands),
-physical human contact,
-the outdoors.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

See self-summary

On a typical Friday night I am

Driving to some nearby city to see friends and watch a movie and chill at a bar or diner... or... playing a game with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I discovered about a year or so ago I had severe GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) which was the cause of some depression (the depression is totally gone now) and also some bad sexual issues (I'd get off too quick, which is really common with people who've had GAD which has been deeply ingrained into their body), but I got on drugs and started meditating regularly (which is amazing and everyone should do it) and now I'm off the drugs, can last forever, and have minimal GAD tension :) yayy happy ending

Hows that for being "willing to admit"?

You should message me if

...you think you'd like to get to know me, meaning potentially adding me to facebook, myspace, aim, google talk, emailing, txt messaging, and video/voice chatting and phone calls and meeting in person for coffee, lunch, dinner, or a night out.