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32 • Harrisburg, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–28
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 25
- 5′ 9″ (1.76m)
- Body type
- Christianity, and very serious about it
- Graduated from university
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
First off I love my life, great family, friends, good career, my own place, but until now I have focused on those things now its time to find a good lady. I am a Christian & would only date someone who is a Christian.
As for me personally- I am a dedicated family man (no kids), I love my family & would do anything for them, very dedicated to my career also, which most times stands in the way of good relationships. My job somewhat defines who I am also & believe strongly in it. I am loyal, people come to me for advice/help a lot, reliable, & utilize common sense, hardworking, passionate, funny, spontaneous, determined, realistic, down to earth.
I am semi-old fashion, I believe the man is in charge (not in a controlling/bad way, in an providing/protecting/Patriarchal sense). Gender roles in the US have gone by the wayside & I believe men & women are different for a reason & both have integral parts. I know a lot of ladies are reading this saying its 2011! (I was born this way haha, or some other hippie nonsense), but I know there is someone out there that still shares the same values/beliefs/feelings I have. I've been told Im an Alpha male, but mix that w/ a momma's boy...weird I know. I am not metro, PC, or in touch w/ my feminine side- I am a red blooded American man's man (just making that clear). I will tell you you're pretty, hold doors for you, give you my jacket if you're cold, but I would like a girl who appriciates these things & doesn't expect these things or take them for granted aka just be polite & nice which is hard for most girls.
I love using my imagination & being an eternal kid. I have a serious side too, but it is balance w/ my love for laughter/sarcasm, & innocence I try to hold on to that we all had when we were kids.
Things I like (I like variety in life)
-amusement parks, arcades, board games, Wii,
-Christmas time!!!, favorite time of year
-BACON or most any meat &/or buffalo sauce
-fishing, kayaking, camping, walks, shooting
-swimming & summer time
-movies-going & staying in
-beach & travelling, exploring
-adventures, looking for lost treasure, dreaming big
-flea markets, ebay, collecting things
-surprises, both giving them & getting them
-museums, zoos--learning new things
-smell of new tires
-being HAPPY w/ lots of laughter
-old school cartoons- scooby doo, superman, ducktales
-small things in life
My parents just celebrated their 35th anniversary & it inspired me to find that missing part in my life. Here are a few things I like in a gal that I didn't mention somewhere else.
-personality (yes ladies I tend to like personality more than looks, but looks are still important)
-family values, loyalty, common sense, caring, SWEET... I find being sweet & caring sexy
-"havin ur nails/herr did"- aka look pretty for me- I like blonds
-long hair (not all of these are a must, just prefer)
-sexy body- see below about body style
-classy yet not snobby or stuck up
-understand me & who I am
-at least semi- educated
-smell good, I try to smell good also
-leave notes/surprise for me
-doesn't drink a lot- bars were never my forte
-aims to please, thoughtful, makes me happy & I definitely try to do the same back
-Have a HUGE heart
(warning ladies: please do not fall in love w/ me after reading this)
Mainly I just want to be happy, not miserable & divorced. I'd love to look forward to coming home to see her, take on picnics, someone I actually want to spend time w/ ...be proud of her, show her off, be crazy about, & make her the happiest woman in the world!
As you can see I put time into this as well as deep thought into the type of partner in crime I would like to share my time with. By no means does this encompass the depth of my personality, wants, desires, & values, but is a general guide to what I ultimately want. I don't have a lot of faith in the online thing, but since I work weird hours/weekends I guess I'll try this, I am not on here everyday so please don't hesitate to message me.
-being a dedicated Uncle
less serious things
-eating dip'n dots
-growing facial hair
-clapping one handed
-Goldeneye on N64
-scrabble or words with friends (I played with my Gmom way before wwf was the cool thing to do)
I read a lot online, different topics- its good to be educated on multiple topics
shows- Scooby Doo, ducktales, king of queens, boardwalk empire, the shield, family guy, pawn stars, justified, storage wars, seinfeld, damages, fresh prince of bel-air
music- just about everything, rock best/country last
food- mexican, italian, BBQ, American
Or that I have a batman tooth brush
-are a Christian
-no STDs, criminal history, no drugs or smoking, or drink heavily
-pretty on the outside and even prettier on the inside
-you are sweet/caring
-have smooth legs (no stubble ladies thats my job to be hairy)
-have good hygiene
-younger than me, weigh less than me (hopefully by more than 50 lbs I am 200 haha, again I angered someone reading this
-don't mind if men are in charge- & if you like a man's man
-have large (very) breasts (I know I know, but I can't help it)
-you like chivalry & gentlemen (who smell good), but not so sweet I'll rot your teeth
-if you'd rather go to an arcade, amusement park, play wii, go treasure hunting, or on a date w/ my nephews & I than go to a bar
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