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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:34am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Dropped out of Post grad
Has cats
My self-summary
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I live in an old house full of new (and old) books... I think too much; ask too many questions; solve too many problems (that no one seems very concerned about) and I find too much humor in the absurdities in life. I fear fame. I enjoy my life with my friends and projects. I have lived and intend to keep living a charmed existence. I'm happy to be the guy you think of as the neighborhood curmudgeon so you will never suspect that I shoveled your sidewalk while you were at work...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
**UPDATE** Recently got un-laid-off and now I'm a traveling fool! **END OF UPDATE** Living in "laid off" but "on call" land. Working on a new business and several writing projects and the renovation of my old victorian - all at once. My projects are currently very unruly children with no concept of boundaries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding solutions. Memorable turns of phrase. Amassing a book collection. Building book shelves for the aforementioned amassing. Bringing clarity to confusing and irrational circumstances. Omelets.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh -- I guess I'm not very inhibited
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Shadow of the Wind; Life of Pi; Water for Elephants; Lamb; Walden; Outliers; Lillith; The Moon is a Harsh Mistress; Atlas Shrugged; Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close; Snow Crash...

Authors: Rilke; Emerson; Voltaire; George MacDonald, Dan Simmons, Annie Dillard; Bill Bryson; Robert Heinlein; Isaac Asimov; C.S. Lewis...

Subjects: Creativity; Mind/Brain Science; Happiness; Irrationality; Innovation; Writing; Computer Programming; Renewable Energy; Alternative/Green Architecture; Philosophy; History; Marketing; Simplicity; Negotiation; Motivation...

Movies: Spitfire Grill; LadyHawke; Blue Brothers; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; Four Weddings and a Funeral; Tombstone; Emma; Much Ado About Nothing; When Harry Met Sally; Casino Royale; Rounders; Princess Bride; Sin City; Fight Club; Love Actually; Groundhog Day; Get Shorty; What Women Want; The Matrix; Sense and Sensibility...

Music: David Wilcox; Dave Matthews; Diana Krall; Counting Crows; Bare Naked Ladies; Blues Traveler; Paul Simon; Frank Sinatra; John Mayer; Gershwin; Louis Armstrong; Harry Connick Jr.; Maroon 5; Doobie Brothers; Supertramp; Jason Mraz; Jackson Browne...

Food: Indian Curries; Italian; Chinese; Sushi; Mexican; Cajun; typical backyard grilling fare... If it is not too pretentious I probably like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order...

1. Books
2. Sleep
3. Good Food
4. Friends
5. Good Conversation
6. Affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• Why we don't have more intelligent solutions to the world's problems by now (because they certainly exist -- why so slow on implementation?)
• How the hell anyone's relationship actually works when none of us seem to be able to communicate worth a damn.
• Taking my time... I like kissing... don't need to be in a rush... I'm looking for connection not frantic consummation... yes, I know where we are going and how to get there I'm just enjoying all the scenery... smelling the flowers... tasting the fruit along the way... relax... you will hear all the words you want to hear... you will feel every touch you have desired... the anticipation is not a bad thing.
• How to write the perfect movie scene.
You should message me if
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You are a happy, rational, intellectual chica who prefers to laugh at life when life is demanding to be taken seriously. You want a partner in crime to learn everything and explore everywhere. You are not allergic to cats OR you are allergic to cats but have no problem being permanently dependent on Claritin/Zyrtec...