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43 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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Breathing. Working for the man. Snowboarding. Sleeping. Hiking. Going for a run/workout. Watching movies. Reading. Listening to NPR. Making travel plans for my next adventure (Mammoth, Park City, CO or Jackson Hole). Watching my team play college football. Checking out cool stuff. You know ... Just watching the wheels go round.
I’m really good at
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Listening. Whistling. Math. Googling. Card games (Bonus points if you know how to play Bridge). Making children laugh and dogs wag their tails. Volleying the ball with my right or left foot. Pattern recognition. Driving like Mario Andretti. Continuous learning. Avoiding a headlock when attacked by judo ninjas. Packing lots of stuff into a small suitcase. Juggling. Being a smartass. Building stuff. Pretty typical guy stuff I guess.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That white boy can dance!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Paul Desmond, the Talking Heads, the Afghan Whigs, Skrillex, Thelonius Monk, Morphine, Tiesto, Bob Mould, Ben Harper, English Beat, Ellie Goulding ......

Movies: Bladerunner, Tell No One, the Secret in Their Eyes, The Three Colors Trilogy, Hitchcock films, Guillermo del Toro films, Tim Burton films, Better Off Dead, The Incredibles, Fight Club, No Country for Old Men, American Beauty, Trainspotting .....

Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, Generation X (really anything by Douglas Coupland), Neuromancer, an Eschatological Laundry List, Barbarians at the Gate, Den of Thieves, Bringing Down The House, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep ....

TV: Archer, The Wire etc ...

NPR and those super cool interviews Terry Gross does on FreshAir.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen/water/sustenance, shelter, friends/family, love, cheeky wit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If neither of us could see, would we still recognize each other from what we hear and feel a strong attraction?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy that its the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an ambitious and optimistic youngest child with one older brother.

I've had to travel a bit for work lately ... what does a ton mean? It means I've been living Sun-Thursday in NJ since May 2014 with only a handful of weekend visits back to SF. (I've also managed to visit Buffalo, DC (2x), Annapolis, and Chicago (4x) in that time.)

If I had a good reason to go back to SF, I would. I've lived in SF for 12 years now. I love it here ... Its just a long flight and I'm trying to make the most of my short weekends. Starting this September, I wont have to travel as much so every other week I will work from home in SF(, except for my trip to Germany for Oktoberfest!)
You should message me if
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You think we might have some witty conversations that might lead to a fun adventure. Or maybe you just want to meet up with someone for a drink in Tahoe after a day of skiing/snowboarding. That'd be cool with me.