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42 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I'm warm and funny. And smart. And kind. In all seriousness, I'm not really very self-indulgent or self-involved. But I am pretty cool.

I like sports. Good food. Good movies. Politics. The stuff most people like. I also love snow and weather in general. I write about it. I research it. I chase snow when we don't get it here. I probably should have been a meteorologist. I love listening to and seeing music. All kinds.

I try not to complain, be negative, or judge others too harshly.

I am liberal, sometimes passionately so, but I am not an ideologue. I like reasoned discourse. Facts matter to me. I don't feel the need to act more knowledgeable than I really am. I don't need to render an opinion on everything.

I try not to get stuck in my own head. There is too much else going on out there. But I am self-aware enough to know I am not creepy. I have more than a modicum of social skills, and people are comfortable around me. I have pretty decent etiquette too. I like to thank people. When I go to someone's home I show up with something. I am considerate.

I don't have a litany of requirements or a "type". If you're funny, confident and comfortable in your own skin, there is a good chance I will dig you. And hopefully you aren't boring, because I'm not.

Worth noting - I really don't enjoy dating. I like getting to know people first. I am open to a relationship, but I am also down with just meeting cool, interesting people. If this leads to romance, that's great. If you feel similarly, and think we might hit it off, contact me. I'll do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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Remembering meaningless trivia and minutia, and not what I did 5 minutes ago.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I have a good voice for radio (I have actually done a little).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am not a snob. I don't care much for critics. But I think I have pretty good taste. Though I don't really believe in "guilty pleasures". If you like something, you like it. I am not pretentious.

Movies - Love classics, Hitchcock, Kubrick, Woody Allen (I am part neurotic Jew), the better mob films (both Godfathers, Goodfellas), and more recent movies that are at least decent. I was a film minor in college so I have been exposed to a lot. I find myself going to the movies a lot more these days.

Books - I am not an avid book reader though I am literate. I have started to read more as I do really enjoy it. Books I have on my iPad now - Into Thin Air, The Stonecutter, NW, The Corrections, Game of Thrones, In Cold Blood, The Joy of Living. I've started 5 of the 7 and finished none. I tried to read Ulysses a couple years ago and got through 10 pages before I gave up. I have a better chance of winning Powerball than I do finishing Game of Thrones.

TV - Currently - Mad Men , Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Homeland, Top Chef, True Detective, House of Cards. Loved the Sopranos, Six Feet Under, Seinfeld.

Music - Jam Bands, particularly the Dead. I saw them about 40 times. Also have seen Phish a ton. Love good classic rock, especially the Stones (Exile, Sticky Fingers), Springsteen. Love Jazz (more than blues) and Reggae. I have pretty eclectic taste in music. My iPod is loaded and the selections are pretty diverse. Just going through the ABC's currently on there - Allman Brothers, The Band, Beatles, Billie Holiday, Blues Traveler, Bob Marley, Bruce Springsteen, Chet Baker, Clash, Cocteau Twins, Credence, Crosby, Stills & Nash, The Cure. I love live music and see a lot of shows, though not like I used to. Looking forward to going to Jazzfest this year.

Food - I am a quasi-foodie. I like almost anything as long as it is well prepared and tasty. I have a pretty good palate. If food sucks I notice, though I am not snobby about it. I definitely go out to eat way more than I cook. I'd like to change that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Grateful Dead
Being outside
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Starting to play guitar again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends, chilling at home, traveling, movie, live music.
You should message me if
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You are funny and you generally like yourself. I'll probably like you as well.