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  • Ages 24–41
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My details

Last online
Sep 29, 2013
Hispanic / Latin
Seeing Someone
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I feel that most people are too wrapped up in imaginary things, in symbol manipulation, and in tasks with no tangible, rewarding end products; they're missing out on the benefits of smoothing something with a metal file, or rebuilding an old bicycle so it's better than new. I'll take steel, leather and brick over plastic, nylon, or vinyl any day.

I like movies, but I watch about zero hours of television a

I try to make my friends' lives a little better, and I want to feel
fulfilled without causing others harm.

It's important to be silly once in a while:

I speak fluent Spanish and terrible French. I'm
trying to learn Mandarin Chinese. My ASL is nearly
all gone, but I wouldn't starve on a deaf island.

I'm not a fan of spectator sports. Participation is key. I'd rather
play kickball (poorly) than watch the World Series.

I take pictures for fun:

I have a freshwater aquarium habit:

I can teach you to fish (non-metaphorically).

I think "serious relationship" sounds needlessly grave, like a
sentence, an infraction, or an affliction. It's an unfortunate term for a potentially brilliant situation.

I rescued a baby squirrel, and I'd do it again. That suggests a certain level of... something.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Broadly, I seek self-actualization with very limited collateral damage. It's tricky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
explaining complex systems in accessible terms, and expressing utter and helpless confusion when I don't understand a complex system.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Conversational skills, if I'm in a good mood. Invisibility, if I'm not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Matthew B. Crawford: Shop Class as Soulcraft. Thomas De Zengotita: Mediated. Iain Pears: An Instance of The Fingerpost. Patrick Suskind, Patrick Süskind: Perfume, The Pigeon. Herman Hesse: Damien. Orson Scott Card: Ender's Game, Ender's Shadow. "Gerry Mander": Four Arguments for the Elimination of Television. Joe Haldeman: The Forever War. Malcolm Gladwell: The Tipping Point. Jeanette Winterson: Written on The Body. Daniel Quinn: Ishmael. Arthur C. Clarke: Rendezvous with Rama. Ursula K. Le Guin: The Lathe of Heaven. Thomas Ligotti: The Nightmare Factory. Douglas Coupland: Generation X, Shampoo Planet. Kurt Vonnegut: Cat's Cradle. Jorge Luis Borges: Otras Inquisiciones. Julio Cortazar, Julio Cortázar: Blow-Up. Ted Chiang, Stories of Your Life and Others. Peter Brown, The World of Late Antiquity....


Intacto, El Aura, The Spanish Prisoner, Memento, Thief, Miller's Crossing, The Big Lebowsky, Fargo, Ridicule, Tous les Matins du Monde, Cité des Enfants Perdus, Ghost in the Shell, Unbreakable, Heist, Some Kind of Wonderful, The Reflecting Skin, 21 Grams, The Third Man, Pitch Black, Saturday Night Fever, Tampopo, Donnie Darko, Kika...


Bitcrush, Catherine Wheel, DJ Shadow, Joy Division, My Bloody Valentine, Year of No Light, Haujobb, Stars, The Magnetic Fields, Suede/The London Suede, Front 242, Everything but the Girl, Lamb, Alias and Tarsier, Portishead, Slowdive, Tonikom, Wai Pi Wai, Sleep, M83... I love Russian Orthodox chant, though I haven't a clue what they're saying. I wish I knew something about Baroque and Classical.


I'll eat almost anything.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
DSLR, bicycles, kung fu, lots of books, lots of music, good people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how most of us live in ways none of us evolved to handle well, how most people have no idea how evolution works, and how useful a personal time machine would be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
happier than I was on Monday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm allergic to broccoli. It's hereditary.
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