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I have fun with life and with my work: eliciting laughter and
smiles from unhappy elders and others. I have the natural ability
to somehow help them laugh and lighten up. I can do this with large
audiences as well.
Very, very gradually, I developed abilities to perceive energies or
auras and to facilitate healing in people. I have had a range of
episodic intuitive experiences, but my primary gift is that of a
I have unusually good health and energy while being relaxed. I may
see 100 as did my maternal grandfather before me. Health and
Longevity on both sides of my family.
I am very easy-going, flexible and resilient on a day-to-day
basis--but I strongly hold my ground when I see or feel a major
injustice. I am serious about completing and publishing my books:
including one on humanity's holistic health. My doctorates in
Sociology/Race/ethnic Relations AND Clinical Psychology combined
with my ability to effect healing have provided me with a
potentially valuable perspective to be a voice among voices to help
humanity-as-client to save itself...from itself.
In the long run, I can do the writing, lecturing and healing from
anywhere and I can relocate to almost anywhere if so motivated.
Ithaca is a very livable place and I continue to work here on a
flexible schedule--one that allows me to explore relationship or
friendship possibilities wherever they may be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am happy to discuss in detail should you have interest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting people to laugh. Becoming teary when good things happen in
life or in movies. Being sensitive to people's energies as a healer
or as a lover. Being cool and rational in crises.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Visually, I am seen as very young-looking. I am told I am who I
appear to be via my photo. I still have the beard but it is
expendable. I once lost it in a card game in Frankfurt, Germany and
the winner pasted it on magazine faces and sent it to me after I
had returned to the states. He and I are still friends, 43 years
later. I still have what they sent! I have lots of fun with life
nearly every step of the way!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Feel free to ask about all this beyond my saying I enjoy a rather
wide range of movies and live performances and I love to eat! To
maintain my excellent health and fulfill my longevity script, I
have chosen to be selective in my food choices. On any given day,
however, I am flexible and can eat in almost all homes or
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My integrity, connection to spirituality, wisdom, humor,
resilience, and sensuality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to juggle my range of interests to get my manuscripts in
publishable form. Although reputable academic presses expressed
serious interest, I have been thinking about and acting upon the
restructuring of the manuscript for a broader audience.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
That's right. On a typical Friday night, "I Am!"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have not "aged" well. In fact I have hardly aged at all in
certain respects. I have very recently attained "personal bests" on
11 Expresso Bike routes at the Y--beating times I had attained in
my "youth," i.e., "way back" in 2011 and 2012.
You should message me if
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