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66 M Ithaca, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My life course was perhaps influenced by a "protective" father. When his buddies said, "Your son Bobby--he's not as dumb as he looks," dear old Dad "defended" me and insisted that I was...... No wonder I put myself through two doctoral programs--one of which was in clinical psychology!

I have fun with life--and my father had his version of a good sense of humor that lasted 92 years.

I have been working with very unhappy people: mostly elders but some very debilitated and sometimes dying young adults. I have the natural ability to somehow get them to laugh and lighten up. I do this with large audiences as well.

Very, very gradually, I developed abilities to perceive energies or auras, to facilitate healing in people and eventually to do this remotely--with or without telephone contact. All this feels very natural both to myself and to the many people that I have helped.
My paternal grandmother was intuitive knew when not to answer the telephone; my maternal grandfather listened to what he described as an inner voice and it saved his life. I have had intuitive experiences, but my primary gift is that of a healer.

I have unusually good health and good energy. I may see 100 as did my maternal grandfather before me.
I am very easy-going, flexible and resilient on a day-to-day basis--but am intense about completing and publishing my books.
My energy sensitivities can have sensual applications, but only in appropriate settings with the right woman.

If you read this far and wish to contact me, I am accessible. But do so because you can intuit, see or otherwise sense potential for a friendship and/or an intimate connection. If you live in Ithaca and there are decent compatibility numbers and no professional conflicts of interest, understand that the small town thing scares me a bit (too much). Feel free to reach out if you feel it may be worthwhile.

In the long run, I can do the writing, lecturing and healing from anywhere and I can relocate to almost anywhere if so motivated. My parents are gone and my kids have their own lives. In the shorter run, I still work in Ithaca but have a flexible schedule for traveling to meet people--combining initial meetings with visits to friends and family in different parts of the country. I am very easy to talk with under any circumstance, including a "first date." If the chemistry is evident or can be sensed to be present under any initial anxieties, then we can take it from there.
What I’m doing with my life
Aside from the above, writing prospective books as part of a broader movement to save humanity from itself--in my integrative roles of Sociologist, Psychologist & Holistic Healer.
The first things people usually notice about me
Visually, I am seen as young-looking. Although small for my gender, I am seen as larger than I physically am because of my energetic and sometimes sensual presence. I have appeared as an open-hearted, caring individual who can be quite playful, yet very trustworthy. I am told I am who I appear to be via my photo (I still have the beard but am not wedded to it).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This, paradoxically, seems too personal for me.
The six things I could never do without
I am choosing to cite internal attributes here: fortitude, resilience, love, wisdom, humor and sensuality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how not to think too much.....huh?
On a typical Friday night I am
possibly writing my book or doing something outrageously healthful, including socializing with good people in person or by phone, working out at the Y, and sometimes attending a "community" vegan dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have not "aged" well. In fact I have hardly aged at all in certain respects. Without any warm-up, I can swim a full 25-yard lap without taking my head out of water and I've always been a SLOW swimmer. Or, I don't even notice I am breathing on the stationary bike until I surpass heart-rate of 120 bpm. I try to cap the "hills" at 160 but sometimes slip and hit 170. This surpasses anything I had done when younger. I am just not aging as I am "supposed to"...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–73
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have an intuitive feeling that it may be worthwhile with respect to friendship or intimacy.