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33 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Sep 8, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
My self-summary
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Currently in a liminal zone. Trying to make it work as a kung fu doctor. Also as a rock star and a comedian. I am highly skilled. Don't feel intimidated. I don't lord it over people. Just acknowledge me a bit and I will feel happy.
I generally feel pretty happy. I feel thankful for all my interesting friends and the interesting things that happen to me. I feel very blessed.
I tend to see things from many different angles. This can be both confusing and refreshing to people. I like getting to the nitty gritty. Small talk is okay for polite company, but I like getting to know people in a deep way. I won't shy away from your deepest, darkest crevices it want to let me see.
I do a lot of mystical exercises. I teach qi gong and martial arts. I meditate and do yoga. I love hearing about people's ideas on spirituality. I think even atheism can be a kind of spirituality. Cosmic thinking gives me a really good perspective on life. I have endured some tough times without despairing because of it.
I call myself a feminist. I don't like a lot of the standard games. I can play them if necessary, but I am a big fan of consent culture and I like it when people tell me things they want or don't want.
I think a lot about the way we humans are headed in our evolution. I feel positive about it in spite of the apparent doom. I take great comfort in the fact that the principle of Pisces which allows blind faith is being replaced by Aquarius who likes science, art, and individuality.
Anyway, I didn't want to get all heavy right here. If you want to date a fun, smart, funny, entertaining, polite guy who can also heal you mystically if you catch a cold or get a tummy ache, a guy who would love to rub your shoulders and lavish warm cuddles upon you, who is an attentive listener, and who has legs made of steel, then I am your guy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making the move to middle classdom. AKA Hustlin'

Having amazing adventures.

Evolving and mutating
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh lot's of cool stuff. I am a wizard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:I don't get much time these days to read anything but Chinese medicine. I like nonfiction on history, science and mysticism. I think I imprinted on Tom Robbins, Robert Anton Wilson and Frank Herbert. They are all a part of me now. I like all kinds of stuff though. I wish I had time to read it. Chinese medicine is pretty cool though.

Movies:Safety Not Guaranteed, I Heart Huckabees, Zardoz, Wizards, Time Traveler's Wife, 7 Samurai, Pan's Labyrinth, The Hudsucker Proxy, The City of Lost Children. I guess I am liking the magical realism as I look back at this list. I will watch most any movie though. I enjoy looking at the symbols in movies as much as the story

TV:Arrested Development, Dr Who, Game of Thrones, Louie CK, Democracy Now, Stewart/Colbert, Adventure Time.

Music:David Bowie, Kate Bush, Queen, Faun Fables, De La Soul, Wu Tang, Embers, Saything, Bobby Joe Ebola and the Children McNuggets, Upside Drown, Breeders, Fela Kuti, Miles Davis, Paganini, Mike Patton, Leonard Cohen, Nina Simone

Food: Healthy, mostly
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My mind is a mile a minute. There is a lot going on in here
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Livin' the dream......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nice try. You'll have to ask me in person.
You should message me if
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-You are a sincere person and you would like to try dating where you act authentically and cut each other a bit of slack

-You enjoy good times, deep conversation, and good belly laughs

-You voted for Roseanne Barr in the last election for president or you think it is at least cute that I did, although I had serious reasons for it. Like that she had the best platform