You: caring, affectionate, romantic, open wth your feelings, warm, honest, educated and intelligent, funny and attractive (to me), interested in a long term, monogamous loving, emotionally intimate, fun and playful relationship. I can tell a lot about you by the way you treat the waiter/waitress when we go out to dinner.
Us: We are each other's cheerleaders and biggest fans. We always have each other's backs. When conflicts or vulnerabilities arise, or feelings are hurt, we calmly, and with love and respect, share our thoughts and feelings with each other and work through them. The ability and willingness to communicate honestly and consistently are qualities that my partner must possess.