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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy life on many different levels. There's one side of me that loves the arts and the more intellectual matters in life. And then there is the athletic side of me that has been involved in team and individual sporting activities my entire life. I love the outdoors; the lovely New England seacoast and the great wintertime ski slopes. But I also love all of the great cities for cultural adventures, restaurants, and excitement!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently moved back to the east coast after being "out west" for many years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skiing, photography, soccer, tennis, buying wine (almost always rosso :), swimming, diving (SCUBA), cycling, trail running, and frequenting great restaurants.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my style :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sooooooooooo many!!! Hemingway, John Irving, David Sedaris, Ken Burns, Tom Robbins, D.H. Lawrence, Randall Jarrell, Robert Lowell, Hitchcock, Kurosawa, Fellini, P.T. Anderson, Wes Anderson, PBS, NPR, the NFL, Frontline, Nova, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Curb Your Enthusiasm. Love Jazz, Rock (more pop than heavy metal), the symphony, bluegrass (but please, no modern "flag-waving" country!!!). Love Italian, French, Mexican, Spanish, Indian, Cajun, Creole, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese... pretty much all food (I've had the great fortune to travel extensively; wonderful!) Oh, and all with great wine!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Skiing, the ocean (for diving, swimming, sailing, etc.), sunshine, the arts, laughter,and great red wine from all over the world (well, technically I could live without red wine, but it would be a fairly miserable existence!).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next ski trip, future travel, politics, human rights, the future of the U.S., global warming (and HOW IN THE WORLD SOOOO MANY COMPLETE BOOBS DENY THE EXISTENCE THEREOF?!!!), and cinema.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing with a Martini, and treating myself to a great meal after a long (and sometimes stressful) week... GREAT! ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really do not spend much time on the couch, or in front of a television. But I LOVE watching the NFL, the Red Sox, and oddly enough, all of the great PGA tournaments (especially The Masters!). And I'm not even an avid golfer (it's just perfect for napping ;.)
You should message me if
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You have a zest for life, love to cook and try new restaurants, are active and physically fit, are romantic, a great kisser, funny, witty,would never describe yourself as a political Conservative, and are truly interested in meeting a great guy (i.e., not just making another pen pal :) PLEASE respect the fact that I am not interested in initiating a seemingly endless "e-lationship" that never leads to an actual, face-to-face meeting (and certainly never leads to a "re-lationship" that involves an exchange between two human beings!!!)

And although this may sound incredibly picayune, the following is very important: in the Q & A section, there is an installment that asks "Which superpower would you choose to have?" (or words to that effect). If you anwered "Invisibility", we are DEFINITELY not a match. I mean, who in the hell would want to be invisible (unless you are a criminal, a pervert, or are riddled with insecurity issues)?!!!

And finally, NO FLIGHT ATTENDANTS (they're just so, mmm... flighty!!! :)

I'll thank you in advance!