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heartgestures

49 F Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Resonance, Intimacy, Depth - the feeling of these words struck me this morning as I continue attempts to express what it is I am available to, vs searching for.

One of the most memorable compliments I've been given is that I am "an archetype of a beautiful woman". It was from another woman, an elegant woman whom I respect deeply and would say the same about. Yes, I am this. I can play it up, and I can play it down. I think about all my "flaws" - and I wonder what man would be okay with this - and I wonder what "flaws" in another am I okay with? The imperfections of the body-mind - the overlays of the soul...
I would like to explore True Intimacy with a man - not just sex - been there, done that, sex is great, the body - resonant bodies together sublime bliss. I yearn for this, yet I know it is not the answer to ever lasting ever-present Happiness.
Well, those are my more intimate thoughts this morning..

Here are the basics...
Caring for, and giving back to the planet and our communities is a priority in my life and it would be important that a partner have similar interest in this regard. It could be as subtle as displaying your creative art project at a local coffee shop, volunteering your time to help others (Ahhhhh... But not in an obsessive way!).

My primary Life path is in spiritual evolution, ego transcendence - not only the spiritual transcendence of the separate self, but also clarifying the body-mind of all imbalances – of any behavior that is less than Loving. Understanding of course that this process could take life-times, there must be at least some interest, and engagement toward it.

Someone Open to learning from everywhere, who does not have all the answers is imperative.
I am looking for companionship with an old soul who is young at heart - someone fun, reflective, open and learning to Love more deeply.

I am very independent and at times needy, I am Loving, brilliant, intuitive, professional, good listener, good speaker, fun, sexy, imperfect, messy, unfocussed, quirky and emotional - and perhaps one of the most balanced humans on the planet!

Lastly - I am interested in men, even just for a coffee/tea meet up, who have been out of any long term relationship for more than 1.5 - 2 years! Imperative!
and... must love animals.

And to hunters:
I am turned off by photos with dead animals. if you are a hunter and can reflect deeply on the conflict and difficulty being here on this planet where we survive on eating flesh of another being, and feel this, yet hunt because You truly feel you can honor the being that you took life from - then I am not opposed. But displaying your kill in any form of dominance, without honor to the life, is most grotesque to me.

I eat fish and poultry. I wish not to, but need to at this time in my life. I do my best in honoring the creatures that have sacrificed their lives so we can be here. I do not eat 4-legged creatures and would prefer a partner at least headed in that direction.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in health care, owner of a small private practice - a bit in limbo however trying to move more toward alternative healing from mainstream medical training in an allied health field.
I also work and volunteer part time for a non-profit focusing on land stewardship, and healing retreats. Part of my work here is in shopping for, some growing, and preparing the organic meals with a team of 4 at the retreats, as well as logistics for the team and what is needed in the outdoor kitchen where all the meals are prepared. My favorite part is starting the outdoor wood-fired pizza oven early in the morning in preparation for lunch time. I tend the fire for 4 hours, then pull the coals out just before the pizza goes in! It makes for an awesome day!
At home I spend a great deal of time landscaping, yard work, gardening, caring for animals, tending a vegetable garden, and cooking.
I’m really good at
Sleeping... Many friends have difficulty with this, however it is something that has come easily to me!
Athletic travel - I used to be an avid cyclist, riding a bike over 3000 miles cross country in 1999, and through my 20s weight trained and taught fitness. My idea of exercise has evolved since those days - now with a focus on lifestyle balance and longevity vs drive to win, prove, or be (something?).
The first things people usually notice about me
gentleness, down to earth and easy to be with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Joddah Akbar, Avatar, recently The Intouchables, The Matrix series, anything with Meryl Streep,
Conscious Media Network interviews on Gaiam TV
Authors: biologist Bruce Lipton, Lynn McTaggert, CS Lewis,
Books: Shaminic Way of The Honey Bee, Anastasia series, herbal and homeopathic health and healing books for humans and animals
Music/Radio: local artist Laz Slomovits, NPR, Prarie Home Companion, Pandora radio, and satellite radio - just about all types of music, mostly coffee house type stuff, to classical, jazz, funk, rhythm and blues, rock etc..
The six things I could never do without
meditation
nature
friends
sunshine
Organic, non GMO food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately it has been business networking and public speaking topics. But generally human healing with nutrition, food as medicine and natural remedies, and where/how I can let more Love into my life - how I can be more Loving in every moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
at an evening seminar, out to dinner and or movie with a friend, or home on the sofa with my dog, a bowl of organic popcorn and a good book, or movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It has been some time since my last long term relationship.
I have been on a spiritual path and have learned much in that time about being a more loving person.
I would cherish the opportunity to learn how to love a man for who he truly is, and to be in a committed relationship with the right person. Until then I'm pretty happy just dating!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have some interest in the health and healing of yourself, humanity, and the environment.
you like animals
you don't have all the answers
you're not in, or just coming off a long term relationship