Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi there! Thanks for checking out my profile! Before you send me a
message please READ my profile. If you aren't looking for something
serious then you can stop right now and just move on to the next
profile. Good luck with your search. NOW if you are serious please
read on. I am someone who is goofy just when you thought you were
getting to know my serious side, and deep just when you thought you
had me pegged as fun-loving. I am a romantic who is not afraid of
the hard work involved in a long term relationship. Trying new
things, discovering new places, food, people is great fun for me.
Above all things I believe that a romantic relationship must be a
friendship as well. One of the biggest things I learned from my
last couple of relationships is that I am great at being a
girlfriend, but not holding onto to my own identity at the same
time. I am changing that. I am a woman who is back on her path to
better health - physically and spiritually, pursuing my dreams and
answering my calling. Almost a year ago and on the wings of a
break-up, I moved from Boston back to CR - my hometown so I am
looking to reconnect with old friends and make some new ones.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a massage therapist* and advanced Reiki practitioner. I am a
certified yoga teacher, meditation teacher, opera singer, waitress,
and serious meditator. I am exploring healing work with crystals
and looking into shamanism. I have discovered belly dancing and am
totally in love with it!! I am searching my soul for that light
that shines in all of us and connects us whether we are aware of it
or not. My life is about not just speaking my truth but living
*it should be noted here that I do not conduct my massage business
from this dating website. This is to keep my professional life and
my personal life separate. Please do not ask me for a massage if
you message me. To book a massage please go to www.myhih.com
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at talking AND listening. It is hard for me to say
this, but I have a beautiful singing voice. I am good at taking
care of others more than myself. I am great at being open minded,
but true to my own sense of ethics and simple morality at the same
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My friend says that I should put down that the first things people
notice about me is I am entertaining and sometimes boisterous with
a great sense of humor and a beautiful smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love sushi and tex mex, but am open to trying anything at least
once (except dog, sorry I don't object to others eating dog, I just
can't do it myself).
I am drawn to movies with an excellent script - more than genre -
and there also has to be fantastic acting. Some of my more recent
favorites have been Silver Linings Playbook, 12 Years a Slave (1box
of tissue per eye), The Butler, (so freakin good!!), Argo, Midnight
in Paris, Black Swan, The Lord of the Rings, etc, etc.
I also must admit that my music taste is a bit old fashioned. I
would take Bing Crosby over Britney Spears or The Beatles rather
than Back Street Boys ANY day! Of course I love "classical" music,
opera, musical theatre, ballet, and just about any music with a
date of 1920 to 1973. I have an old soul....what can I say?
As far as books, I LOVE to read: for fun, for my spirit, to learn.
I am currently reading Game of Thrones, The Curious Incident of the
Dog in the Night-Time, and a book about Shamanism. I have to say
that I never expected to fall in love with fantasy, but after
reading Lord of the Rings, someone suggested that I read the Wheel
of Time. I LOVED it, and that led me to Game of Thrones. I have
realized good writing and/or great characters and/or great stories
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family
2. My independence
4. Meditation and yoga
5. Oxygen (hehehe)
6. Love (that's why I am on this site, right?)
****these are not in any particular order****
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It sounds cliche, but learning to walk my path without expectation
of what that is and balancing my time and attention between all the
things I love in this world. What is happiness and how can I be
happier? What is really important, how I can be a better citizen in
this world, how I can take care of myself better in order to be
better at taking care of my brothers and sisters on this planet?
When will lightsabers be real (so cool) and can we achieve world
peace before we need them(hopefully!!)?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually working at the restaurant where I wait tables.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to have mini private dance parties in my car while I drive
to work or the grocery store on sunny spring or autumn days.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you like to talk AND listen. Drop me a line if you
are open minded, fun-loving, and dig deep conversations and wild
laughter. DON'T message me if you are under 30, married, or looking
for just a sex partner. And just a bit of advice, fellas, if you
are serious about looking for a girlfriend or wife READ her
profile. Then when you message her give her something to go on.
Don't just tell her she is pretty, or say "hi" or " how U doin."
Women get a lot of messages on this thing. Most of them are like
that. The ones who are looking for more than a hook-up use a 1 - 5
word response as a way to filter out to whom they are NOT going to
respond. I'm just saying. A woman who puts in effort wants effort
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