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hedonisticmonk

31 / M / bisexual / Available

San Francisco, California

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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I am open, sensual, and insightful.

My Self-Summary

All things to all people: a bi-poly switch (who plays vanilla more often than not, so not just kinkster friendly). I am engaged to the wonderful RSSanFrancisco but still open to new friends, lovers, or other (which would be what exactly?). Generally I am the typical pampered, horribly-busy, overly-contented San Franciscan: elitist liberal, feminist-pseudo-intellectual. But at 31, I am too old for skinny jeans, so I think I escape the dreaded hipster label.

I exceedingly rarely hook-up with people online, so account is mostly for daydreaming and window-shopping, but I'm open to exceptions in almost all things

You should message me if

You are the elusive hot, bi babe, of either gender (but guys must be even more attractive), so compelled by my few words that you have to throw yourself at my feet.

Or I know you.

Or you have something else going on compelling enough to get my attention.