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hedonistsrus

55 / M / Straight / Single

Hudson, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Here's what I'm looking for - I'm a single guy who, rather than trying to find a woman for a relationship, is looking to have an affair. I'm not involved with anyone right now but it occurs to me that what I'd really like to find at this point is a woman with whom I can share, enjoy and experience all of the energy, passion and flexibility of an affair -- a casual relationship based on having some serious, intense fun ... and, of course, great sex.

Because of this and the fact that I'm going to be answering some very personal questions honestly, I'm not posting a picture. I will, however, provide some on request.

I'm an attractive, smart, honest, attentive, adventurous, sensual, healthy, considerate, successful guy with a great sense of humor and bit of a wild side.... a gentleman who knows how to have fun and knows how to treat a woman.

My interests both indoors and out are wide and varied. I enjoy live music, movies, good food and wine, and museums. The affair can be physical or also include enjoying some of these other interests. The important part for me is that the relationship focus on enjoying each other and just having fun without any other expectations.

I'm looking for an attractive, sensual, confident, direct, interesting woman who's interested in the same kind of thing. You can single, married or involved. I won't preclude it turning into a long-term relationship if that's how things evolved but I would like to start with that as the goal or primary motive.
I’m really good at
Having fun and making sure my partner is as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile.Twinkling eyes. Open and friendly personality.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a bit of a fetish for giving oral sex.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
you're looking for the passion, energy and intensity of an affair without the expectations, demands, and emotions of a relationship.