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heidi9lives

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BDSM: Without looking it up, do you know exactly what it stands for?

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In your ideal sexual encounter, do you take control, or do they?

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How confident are you in your sexual abilities?

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Are sex and intimacy the same thing?

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Do you have a desire (even if it's secret) to take part in sexual activities involving bondage?

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Does showering or bathing with your significant other appeal to you?

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Would you like to receive pain during sex?

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Regardless of future plans, what's more interesting to you right now?

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Are you more horny or more lonely?

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