I like spending time with friends at the pub (one where you can hear yourself talk - not nightclubs), having dinners in or out, and a healthy slab of time by myself (OK, being realistic, the free time to myself doesn't really happen. I'm normally too knackered by the time I get the alone time to really do anything except watch a DVD) - reading, painting, playing with my two Jack Russells.
I've always been cynical about internet meetings. They seem to be either strange, half-real relationships or Gaydar style hook-ups. However I have already met a couple of nice, normal people on OK Cupid, so decent run so far! None was exactly relationship material, but, working on percentages, I'm doing alright.
I am wise, naive, and contradictory