Hi! I'm looking to find some female buddies in Ipswich (or fronm further afield who can stay over) to hang out with, go to pubs with, maybe a club, whatever. I'm friendly, good-humoured, easy to talk to with no hang ups and a very nice person to know. :-)

TV shows I like include Ghost Hunters (bottom line? ghosts are real), Mythbusters (bring on the science!), The Simpsons (yes, it's still going), Heroes and I'm just about to finish watching through every episode of The Avengers. I'm also getting back into learning Japanese thanks to my other half's daughter's obessession with Japanese manga and anime - well, someone's got to know what she's talking about! :-)

I also happen to be a transsexual (pre-op) which is no big deal for me me, it's just what I am and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. Yes, Helen is my real name and it's what's on my driving licence etc and that is what I look like full-time. I'm NOT a transvestite, I can't turn this off.

My lesbian partner and I have an open but very stable and very loving relationship and we don't believe in monogamy so if things go beyond just friendship then as long as everyone knows what's going on then it's ok. ;-) We're also into goth and BDSM and being a TG/F couple as well then we're pretty unconventional.

One last thing, just because I'm a TS doesn't automatically mean I'm the slightest bit interested in other trans folk because I'm not. I'm not interested in men either which seems to be the other assumption I often find made about me. Sorry but I'm a ladies girl.

Being the happiest I've ever been! :-)

Making people smile.

Either my eyes or more usually my legs. Do you like my legs? I grew them myself, you know. :-)

Books - I don't bother with books anymore.
Movies - Sci-Fi, old horror stuff, comedies, anything light or escapist. Why watch movies that make you sad?

My other half, my PC, my car, friends, happiness and hope. Yeah, cheesy list isn't it!

..whatever shall I put in this box?

still me! :-)

You're open minded, were born a female and are feminine, you're into BDSM or at least like having fun with ropes and handcuffs or would like to try and are NOT trans.

Also message me if you just fancy a random, impromptu trip to the pub to meet someone different. :-) Let's have a chat with a stranger, get a glimpse into someone else's life and we both like what we find then see where it goes from there. Go on, be adventurous!