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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:11am
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a NY guy living on the west coast now for over 2 years and really enjoying it. As for the reasons I moved out here? Sounds like the perfect first date conversation.

I'm a romantic at heart, occasional painter, a drummer, an attorney, and a biker. I am a happy and positive person who is extremely carefree, loves to laugh, and loves learning and the idea of self improvement. Most of all, I am eager to enjoy life to the fullest.

I am an avid reader, dig dive bars and wine bars, like to cook (although out of hunger and a lack of time I often end up making the same damn dish way too often), and I have been fortunate enough to live abroad and enjoy some of the best moments of my life while doing so.

I take an interest in the world around me and consider it my responsibility to help people and contribute in a positive way.

I enjoy my job and work hard at it - I believe that a career, since it takes up so much of our time, should be something that we find fulfillment in. That being said, a balance between work and play, and the pursuit of hobbies and interests, is probably the perfect way for me to define a good part of my personality, and in general I'd like to think I seek balance in much of what I do. Ideally, my lovely and better half would share similar goals.

Massive Attack, Rolling Stones, Ramones, Frank Sinatra, Pink Floyd, Classifcal music, or Simon & Garfunkel fans, give yourselves 50 bonus points and proceed to the next subheading.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as an international trade attorney, trying to figure out this whole west coast thing, painting something, biking around the city, writing something, brewing my own beer, studying a language, reading a book at a local cafe, occasionally watching the History/Discovery channel, planning a trip, daydreaming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A haven't a clue, you let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Lots of historical non-fiction; Fiction: The Unbearable Lightness of Being; City of Thieves; The Long Walk: The True Story of a Trek to Freedom; Portnoy's Complaint; The Catcher in the Rye; A Song of Fire and Ice series; Wheel of Time series.
Movies: Several classic movies I am not in the mood to list; Gattaca; The Big Lebowski; Sleepy Hollow; Vacation; Fletch; Henry & June; Burnt by the Sun; Amelie; Fight Club (and yet I am still sane); Ferris Bueller's Day Off, too many to list.
Food: Indian; Italian; Chinese; Thai; French; Japanese; Eastern European; Most things I have not tried before, as long as it isn't still moving.
TV: Breaking Bad; Game of Thrones; Walking Dead; Deadwood; Rome; Spartacus; The Tudors; Entourage; Mad Men; Galactica; Real Time with Bill Maher; Californication; Star Trek; True Blood (it's just so awesomely trashy). Other than that, the news, and some occasional History/Discovery Channel. Music: Anything that catches my fancy; Classic Rock/Rock; Jazz; Classical; Alternative; international music; a bit of hip hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family/friends; a good book to read; a trip to plan; good music; pen and paper; an escape route.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Space exploration.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The verdict is still out on what my typical San Francisco Friday will be. However, having a fun meal out, looking forward to a number of things I have planned for the weekend (one of which includes some relaxing down time with the aforementioned book and people watching for a while in a nice quiet place), catching up with my friends, and enjoying the city, sounds like a decent plan.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not admitting anything. Ask and I may tell.
You should message me if
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You find any of the above interesting to you. You are not someone who views life as a script that is just blindly followed. You are enough of a dreamer to want to pursue adventures together, but realistic enough to build something meaningful and long lasting. You are someone who is sarcastic, humorous, adventurous, easy going, has a good heart, and takes an interest in what is going on around the world.