Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You can keep it short and sweet and not dwell on the outcome.
Congratulations you took a chance! that's what life is all
-Don't worry I'll probably message you. Don't worry that doesn't
mean I'm a slut (you'd be surprised how many people think there's a
direct correlation), it's just that my "type" is not the average
user on okcupid.
**Disclaimer: I'm not really attracted to white or black guys.
Often I get messages that are so lovely but I don't reply because I
don't want to lead anyone on. If you are white or black and you do
send me a message please let me know you read this section and that
you are ok just being friends, then you will most likely hear back
from me. Don't troll me about it, that just makes you look petty.
Fyi I'm one of the most awesome friends and wingwoman you will ever
My general type is: kind, intelligent, brown (asian, middle
eastern, hispanic, native, mixed, etc) slim, beautiful (I can't
help it I'm a sucker for a pretty face!) around my height (I don't
want to have to hurt my neck to kiss you), active and interesting,
open to new things and silly.
With a heavy heart I say, no more young guys. I've got about 5
years experience of dating guys younger than me and it never ends
-Of course there are always exceptions, but that's just the pattern
I've seen in myself.