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40 • M • Oakland, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 30–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 9:04pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
being very reclusive and introspective.
thinking about my next move as an artist.
watching a lot of films, reading a lot of art essays and cultural criticism and spacing out a bit.
getting better at making soup.
gathering wood for my wood burning stove.
laughing at myself
making really weird noises
art books mostly, a lot of critical essays on art, film and pop culture, sci-fi (Lem, PKD, Vonnegut) and I try to read all those classic works of literature piled up in my room, but never get far... probably because I am more visual and obsessed with
An American Werewolf in London, John Carpenter's The Thing, Taxi Driver, Vanishing Point, Fight Club, Repo Man, Ingloriuos Basterds, Reservoir Dogs, Jackie Brown, True Romance, Pulp Fiction, Trainspotting, Snatch, Fargo, The Big Lebowski, Casino, Goodfellas, Mean Streets, 70's exploitation films, most films from the 70s really, Spaghetti Westerns - mostly Leone, cheesy and not-so-cheesy SciFi films, 2001: A Space Odyssey, most of Kubrick's films, my all time favorite being Dr. Strangelove.
a lot drone and dirge, ambient waves, experimental and otherwise.
Melvins, SUNN O))), Boris, Earthless, Electric Wizard, Butthole Surfers, old blues and coutry, John Zorn, Boredoms, CCR, Thee Oh Sees, Dead Milkmen, Dead Kennedys, Circle Jerks, Johnny Cash, and a bunch of other stuff I can't think of
tv (on the internet/dvd)
Bobs Burgers, Archer, Louie, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Breaking Bad, Boardwalk Empire, 30 Rock, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, The Young Ones, Twin Peaks, Bottom, Black Books, Spaced
I make great soup, Bulgogi and pickles. I'm addicted to Vietnamese sandwiches and Pho. I try to keep my burger habit down to once a week. I'll go out to eat just about anywhere and order whatever looks good, but I tend to gravitate toward Korean, Vietnamese, and tacos. how could I forget the tacos?
space and time to myself
coffee and cigarettes
home cooked meals
plants and spiders
my soup pot
films that I have seen
films I want to see
how to finish that painting
you would rather be making something than shopping.
you are doing what you want with your life to a greater degree.
also, please refrain if you're a burner. the Playa, blah, blah, blah.
seriously, I don't want to hear about it.
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