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hello-potential

38 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:34pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
moderate summary:
chicago born n lived til 20 naught 2.
New York 5 years. Social work, stockbroker, tutor/manager at tutor center. After a bit of an awakening...
Maine/new Hampshire- 2 years. Wilderness guide for teens.
New mexico, mountaintop- 6 months writing/caretaking doing my best Shining impression minus the murder rampage. or family. it was the "beautiful hermit existence at 9,000 ft" that would have made the Shining an indie hit versus a horror classic.
American west: 6 months. Odd jobs, drifting, adventure tour guide for last 3ish.
Back to new Hampshire/maine for almost a year. Same job.
Central america - 9 months. Gypsy soul backpacker. worked a plethora of life affirming jobs.
Chicago, my childhood home, 1.5 years and counting. mainly bartending for dollars. also some late life beginnings as a paid and unpaid model.

I write, but with an urban procrastinator output rather than the output that comes with isolation from phones, tv's, bars, people. well, the night sky was probably the best tv i've ever watched.

I am in search of true originality and verifiable links of infinity to pass on to others so we can cease to be the most counterproductive species in this planet's history. also searching for awesome examples of humans to meet, date, and connect with. artistic peoples are amazing to connect with.

key motivating factors at various times of my life: love, experience, sex, knowledge, awareness, happiness, change, and the here n there existential crisis.
What I’m doing with my life
laughing about it
I’m really good at
using the english language
making choices many people don't wanna consider
poker
getting to the heart of the matter
Getting and giving consent; consent is hot n sexy. Non-consent is disgusting.
connecting with people. also good at purposefully not connecting with people.
The first things people usually notice about me
usually - hair
now - more hair (beard)
supersensory - mangina
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
whitman is all that matters, from a certain perspective. i'm kind of a disciple of that brand of original output
The six things I could never do without
jokes
kinky sex
my multitudes
water
oxygen
scientology

one of these is not true
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the meaning of life, making a utopia here and now, beauty, answers to personal and world problems, boxing, blissful-reached-enlightenment-together-sex, race, yoga, ghandi, love love love, making eye contact in a world where people avert their eyes in a plethora of ways regularly, Genghis Khunt, truth, infinity, life on the road alone and w/people i draw into my life, like maybe you. also, genes, infinity, and dat ass, during and away from yoga classes.
On a typical Friday night I am
probably not thinking about all the "straight" guys that check out my profile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i identify with 2 very specific tags - pansexual and polyamorous.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you're an artist
you wanna teach me something
you'd get a giggle outta my discourses when i'm toked up
you want to Dom me
you want to be my Sub
or you switch it up
you're hot n funny n unpredictable n ideally bi/pansexual
you're willing to walk thru torment into truthful total consciousness
you haven't lost that loving feeling; the righteous brothers are liars