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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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moderate summary:
chicago born n lived til 20 naught 2.
New York 5 years. Social work, stockbroker, tutor/manager at tutor center. After a bit of an awakening...
Maine/new Hampshire- 2 years. Wilderness guide for teens.
New mexico, mountaintop- 6 months writing/caretaking doing my best Shining impression minus the murder rampage. or family. it was the "beautiful hermit existence at 9,000 ft" that would have made the Shining an indie hit versus a horror classic.
American west: 6 months. Odd jobs, drifting, adventure tour guide for last 3ish.
Back to new Hampshire/maine for almost a year. Same job.
Central america - 9 months. Gypsy soul backpacker. worked a plethora of life affirming jobs.
Chicago, my childhood home, 1.5 years and counting. mainly bartending for dollars. also some late life beginnings as a paid and unpaid model.

I write, but with an urban procrastinator output rather than the output that comes with isolation from phones, tv's, bars, people. well, the night sky was probably the best tv i've ever watched.

I am in search of true originality and verifiable links of infinity to pass on to others so we can cease to be the most counterproductive species in this planet's history. also searching for awesome examples of humans to meet, date, and connect with. artistic peoples are amazing to connect with.

key motivating factors at various times of my life: love, experience, sex, knowledge, awareness, happiness, change, and the here n there existential crisis.
What I’m doing with my life
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laughing about it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
using the english language
making choices many people don't wanna consider
getting to the heart of the matter
Getting and giving consent; consent is hot n sexy. Non-consent is disgusting.
connecting with people. also good at purposefully not connecting with people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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usually - hair
now - more hair (beard)
supersensory - mangina
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Non monogamy

one of these is not true
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life, making a utopia here and now, beauty, answers to personal and world problems, boxing, blissful-reached-enlightenment-together-sex, race, yoga, ghandi, love love love, making eye contact in a world where people avert their eyes in a plethora of ways regularly, Genghis Khunt, truth, infinity, life on the road alone and w/people i draw into my life, like maybe you. also, genes, infinity, and dat ass, during and away from yoga classes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably not thinking about all the "straight" guys that check out my profile
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There is no television in my home
I enjoy pissing on trees and off balconies
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're an artist
you wanna teach me something
you want to Dom me
you want to be my Sub
or you switch it up
you're hot n funny n unpredictable n ideally bi/pansexual
you're willing to walk thru torment into truthful total consciousness
you haven't lost that loving feeling; the righteous brothers are liars