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helooksdaft

29 Brooklyn, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:52pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Armenian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Basically, if your Mariah Carey fantasy is lacking in the ODB department read on...

This might come off wrong, but...if I message you, it's because I'm interested to see if you'd like to go on a date. If you're not into that, that's (of course) absolutely fine. But let's make that clear whichever way it goes. It's not chat buddies/penpals I'm here for.

Just trying to find someone to wile away the hours with. You know, spinning records, watching movies, that sort of thing. I also like to do things like go to concerts and lectures and things so if you like doing interesting things and splurging on great and perhaps unnecessary meals, we might get along. Oh and if this ends up working out I'll be incredibly surprised.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working too much for an airline and planning my next trip, in between bouts of searching for the love of my life, you know how it goes. Typical shit, like sitting around playing along to Missy Elliott on my instruments.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
describing emotions apparently:

Have you ever felt loved before with anyone in your life before ? and can you tell me what
love means to you?
me: Yes I most certainly have.
The second question is much more complex
But it means having an appreciation for another person
A need for them
Marian: Ok
me: Knowing that you can tell them anythign and depend on them
Marian: Goood
me: In its simplest form, love might mean just intimacy.
Comfortable and continued intimacy.
and i don't just mean physical/sex
mental closeness
Next question?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
beard, laugh, loud shirt when applicable
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: 1984, Cat's Cradle, Les Fleurs du Mal, Le Horla, The Sheltering Sky

Movies: Code Unknown, Week End, The Royal Tenenbaums, Mulholland Drive, Alphaville, La Haine, The Big Lebowski

Shows: Arrested Development, Trailer Park Boys, Simpsons, Seinfeld, Twin Peaks, Home Movies

Music: Yo La Tengo, Godspeed You Black Emperor, The Velvet Underground, Can, The Beatles, Jim O'Rourke, Sleater-Kinney, Leonard Cohen, Liars, The Wedding Present, Os Mutantes, Pulp, Boredoms (I could go on for a while here)

Food: Cheese. Yes, just cheese. Or fish. Seafood is a big deal around here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dreaming
The occasional sunflower flat bagel
Finding red wines in about the $15 range that please me
Going to concerts
Astronomical events
A towel and freshly washed clothes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
architecture and morality, words and how to use them. I do not spend a lot of time thinking about the Jumble.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mixing a Manhattan, surveying wardrobe options and considering immediate destinations. Primpin' basically

But if you have a typical Friday night you're probably fucking boring, no?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've softened my stance on yoga. Please yoga women, get at me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
we'll spend the rest of our lives together circling the globe, while laughing happily ever after...or if you want to help me learn a new language or improve my poor skills in another. Oh and if you are Fiona Apple you should message me too.

"I think I'd be good for you, and you, you'd be good for me." - R C