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helosir

27 / M / Straight / Single

Costa Mesa, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:35am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I much prefer conversations in person. So I'm the kind of guy where if it looks like we might enjoy eachother's company, I would rather talk on the phone and preferably meet in person to get to know you, rather than sending a bunch of long emails back and forth. So if you think we should meet, shoot me a message and if it's reciprocal lets connect on the phone and then grab coffee or go on an adventure together! :)

To give you a snapshot of me though, the most important thing in my life is my relationship with God, and trying to love him and love others as much as I can. My whole goal in looking for a partner in life is to find someone that I have a ton of fun with, and most importantly who can help me love God and others as much as I possibly can. I am extroverted and easy-going. I love spending time with friends or family hanging out, going on an adventure, or playing some sort of game (athletic, card, board, any kind)!

I am passionate about helping others, love to travel, and have been known to karaoke every now and then! I think I have a pretty good balance between being driven/goal oriented and just having a good time. So there are some aspects of me where I am extremely driven and more mature than most of my peers, and then there is the side of me that's just a big goofball who loves to be sarcastic and joke around a ton!
What I’m doing with my life
If this is just asking about my purpose/career focus, I'm trying to love God well and love others well. I'm spending my time inspiring others to accomplish their goals either through my work (financial planning and directing our intern program), through church/non-profits, or just with friends. Outside of that, I think the rest of the info on here sums up what I'm doing in life.

I would. Also love to start a non-profit and may get that started this year actually. I'm pretty excited about it so feel free to ask about it! :)
I’m really good at
Coming up with random adventures to go on with others! Making breakfast foods and smoothies. Speed scrabble, boggle, and puzzles. Doing the Carlton dance. Making people laugh. I'm a phenomenal singer...okay that's not true, but I'm totally the guy in the car next to you who's just belting out that song on the radio! :) I have also been told I'm a good listener and I make others feel accepted and cared for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Bible, self improvement books - whether religious, business, psychology, or personal growth focused.

Movies: Comedies (Dumb and Dumber, The Other Guys, Elf), Action (I.e. the Bourne Movies), Remember the Titans-esque movies, a good Disney/pixar movie (I used to work with kids and can enjoy these), and I will admit, the occasional chick-Flick comedy isn't so bad (The Proposal, etc)

Shows: Sportscenter/football and basketball games, Arrested Development, The Office, Extreme Makeover Home Edition

Music: Chill stuff (Jack Johnson, Colbie Caillat), Top 40 stuff, Worship Music (Hillsong, Chris Tomlin)

Food: Italian, Chinese, Thai, American, Mexican, etc.
The six things I could never do without
God/ Prayer/Bible
My family/friends
Sports/Games
Sun
Travel
Goals/Drive/Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can help other people improve their lives. The next place I want to travel to. The family that I want someday. How my Pittsburg Steelers and Lakers are doing. God's grace and how I don't deserve it. How amazingly blessed I am on so many levels. Completely random songs that pop into my head. Crazy, fun adventures I want to go on (anyone up for hang-gliding? I've always wanted to go!). Funny lines from movies or songs that I say without realizing in everyday conversations - "I like it, I like it a lot!", "I'm not even mad, that's amazing!", "Everyone can sing, it's just like talking, but louder and you move your voice up and down." (bonus points for you if you tell me where those lines are from when you message me!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Truthfully my ideal Friday is a nice game night/Jacuzzi night, Karaoke, dinner with people I love, or going on an adventure with friends. I'm not really into the bar scene or clubbing. If it's been a crazy week sometimes I'll just relax at home with dinner and a movie, but still preferably with someone else as I get energy from people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I took figure skating lessons in the third grade. So, let's just say I know how to have a good time!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You love Jesus, think we would have fun together, and think it would be cool to start a conversation to see if we should go out sometime to meet in person.