I have always had the craving to serve as a submissive or perhaps "babygirl," but only recently have I had the courage to seek out men truly dominant in their own LIVES, not just in the bedroom. I find myself slightly outside the "vanilla" world, attempting to gain insight into what I really want in a personally tailored relationship for two. If you think something is missing from most modern relationships that is essentially human, that is where I caught my interest in trying something different. Most self-proclaimed "Doms" I have met have been wannabes with no clue what they were doing...they were just in it for the sex. I am NOT, as much as I love and long for sex. I am seeking a Dom, Daddy, or Master, NEW or EXPERIENCED, who can learn me, as I will him, mentally, physically, and sexually. A male who wants to develop a real relationship where communication is the NORM, not the exception. I'm imperfect and could use help finding my true voice in a male/female enterprise. This is a concern because I have a tendency to lose the joy I find in my female role when I slip into transforming myself into what I "think" he wants. I blame American media tropes, and try to stay the hell away from anything of the sort. :)
My willingness to serve goes very deep, but I am submissive, NOT passive! You'll find I have strong opinions and can take care of myself. In fact, I think it takes a stronger woman to truly open herself and be vulnerable to a man she trusts with her life. I simply believe that humans haven't changed for essentially 40,000 years, and no veneer of civilization can alter that, so I am adapting my approach to find what I want. I have a B.A. in Psychology and I am studying for dual Master degrees in Appalachian Studies and Public Administration in graduate school at Appalachian State in BOONE. That said, I don't necessarily care if you have a college degree; I was bright long before I got my undergrad parchment.
I am brunette, 5'6", and have an hourglass figure (38-28-38). My breasts (perky C cups) and my hands (elegant, with long fingers) are particularly beautiful. I have green eyes and a very pale, Scots-Irish complexion. I am grateful to be easily, multiply orgasmic, including orgasms from breast stimulation alone.
The qualities I seek in a male are strong intelligence, EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY, (yes, it is so rare I had to capitalize it) and sexual experience. To find a dominant man who is willing to try something different, but quintessentially human, with me is the relationship for which I'm searching.
I recently received this compliment from a far-away gentleman on OKC: "You are smartass, silly, sweet, and submissive to your soul... what more could a man seek..." I am honored by this.
I am very self aware and know what I am looking for, so please read these before contacting me.
Please make sure you can seduce me with your mind BEFORE your body and will, or it ain't gonna fly, friend.
I wish a real relationship with my partner, so I would like someone close to my age who can best relate to where I am in my life, what my particular proclivities are and can sympathize with the road I've already traveled. Therefore, I feel I will have the most success with men over 35 or under 60.
Take heed, ye who respond here: PLEASE BE POLITICALLY LIBERAL. Dated a Republican once, for 4 years, and Iraq happened because his type of patriotism was blind and common. Never again.
I will only respond to SINGLE men, but BOONE is a tiny oasis of knowledge in the mountains of NC, and I am relocatable for the right man. Not seeking one night stands, but a physical and consistent relationship with my PARTNER, who happens to be more dominant just as I happen to be more submissive.
P.S. If you've read this far, I'm pretty sure you don't have ADD. Huge plus!