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hendl74

61 F Long Beach, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Yiddish (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Live in Long Beach, but can work anywhere, & am willing to re-locate to L.A. or its surroundings. Former midwesterner, & love living here. I am a funny, intelligent/intellectual, loving, sensual woman. I am spiritual, Love to travel - for 2 yrs. lived in a Mayan village in Mexico. Am a lawyer; I work with the disabled & am politically progressive. I love men - and miss having one in my life. I have 2 adult children whom I love; have a very flexible schedule, and always make time to see a good man, no matter where you live in S. Calif.
Love the arts; get so engrossed in paintings that often the guards have to kick me out of art museums at 5 PM. Also love jazz - esp. piano and sax, and other types of music. love dancin to classic rock!
What I’m doing with my life
What I am doing? Why waiting for you, of course! Besides the above, I write - short stories, poetry, non-fiction. Read - love well-written memoirs, spiritual books -Tolle, and good quality fiction, etc. I do like hiking, and keep promising to buy a bike . . . I love going to good movies, theater, and art museums.
I’m really good at
Listening and being there for people I care about. People always tell me I am easy to talk to. Also - love to laugh!
I am very supportive of the man in my life - I love listening to you discuss your goals, plans, dreams - GO for it!
The first things people usually notice about me
my friendliness, very blue eyes, and funny comments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: To Kill a Mockingbird; The Reader; Tolle books; on spirituality; on psychology.
movies: The Reader; incredible documentaries (Michael Moore, Errol Morris, etc.). Independent movies, and good foreign film.
TV: Bill Maher; Seinfeld; news shows; Linda Goodman,
Big Bang Theory.
radio: Coast-to-Coast; Pacifica; NPR; jazz & rock stations.
food: Am a pseudo-vegetarian.
music: jazz, classical, Motown, Stones, I feel like dancin' . . . yeah -
The six things I could never do without
1. my kids and my incredible friends
2. movies & books that are so riveting they make me forget everything else. (Uh, that's an earthquake you tell me? Hey - I can't leave because I just gotta finish this page first).
3. art and art museums
4. writing about things I care about
5. love and passion with a good kind man
6. travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to get people employed again. How to get better lives & decent money for my disabled clients. How I can improve myself. My friends, my' kids' and how much I care about them. What kind of guy I should really be seeking. Places I would love to travel to, & the next art exhibits &/or Plays &/or (fill-in-the-blank) I really want to go to. How lucky I am! Do aliens exist? Was 9/11 a conspiracy? Is there a grand conspiracy behind all the conspiracies?? I think I might be thinking too much . . .
On a typical Friday night I am
off with friends - dancing, dining, at an art opening. Sometimes it is a quiet evening at home, and I am reading a great book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
How much I would like to be with a wonderful man right now.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 57–68
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
YOu share even a few of my interests. Have a good sense of humor, and like funny women. You are progressive. You read books, love good discussions, keep up on the news, and - extra points if: you are into the arts; Jewish or familiar with the culture; listen to NPR, Pacifica and/or Coast-to- Coast; are spiritual; and are a positive person, G-d Damn It!!!
Please do not contact me If: you ONLY want sex; You want to spend our first date telling me how your ex-wife; ex-gf; ex-dog, was a Bitch - I want to spend our time getting to know each Other (well wait -maybe your ex-dog was a bitch . . . )