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herbalmilk

25 Saint Paul, MN Cis Woman

Cis Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:55pm
Orientation
Pansexual
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. You found my profile. Awesome !
Before you go any further, let me be clear: I am not here to "find the one." I have a great boyfriend, but I would love to meet new friends (cuddle buddies???) since I just moved to the Twin Cities area. If that's something you'd like to be a part of, scroll them wandering eyeballs downward so I can tell you about myself !

I'm polycapable, panromantic, and pansexual.
I JUST WANNA LOVE THE WORLD.

My hobbies include the following: reading, writing, pondering life, drawing various subjects, cooking, and dreaming about travel. I also enjoy collecting stationery. Wanna be pen pals ? Writing letters has become my newest obsession.

Did I mention I'm a color/grapheme synesthete ? I sing to myself often, I love yoga, kayaking, long walks on the beach, cats, and I am super plush which is just right for cuddlin' !
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, holding down the goddamned fort.

Seriously, I just moved here aaaalllll the way from Florida. Secured my first full-time position last week. Now I'm looking for a place in which I can settle down long enough to get back to painting. The "living with friends" struggle is real. :c
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Dancing in heels
- Packing picnics
- Having a good damned time
- Placing needles in the beginning grooves of secret songs
- Wearing a beanie
- Losing my glasses
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been physically described as "good at art, kind of short."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
--FAVE PUBLICATIONS--
Hi Fructose Magazine
Food Network Magazine

--FAVE MOVIES--
My First Mister
Kamikaze Girls
The Room

--FAVE MUSIC--
Kindness
King Tuff
Ty Segall (band and solo but he's in so many other bands toooo)
Beach House
FKA Twigs
Blood Orange

--FAVE FOOD--
Most things-just not seafood.
I know, I've lived on the coast all my life.
I still can't eat it.

Korean wins as my all time favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art.
Art.
Food.
Art.
Friends/family
Art.

(Look at this shit, I'm practically a seal.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Other freaking people.
Mortality.
Nakedness.
Social constructs.
"Oh god, what am I gonna do with a humanities degree..."
Music.
"I could own a farm one day..."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine. Come have a glass !
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have have a HelloKitty shower-cap. I use it regularly. I think it's probably the least sexy thing I own.

I know I'm not in college anymore but I still like eating ramen and Lunchables every now and again despite being a pretty respectable home-cook.

Ichthyophobic. Please don't take me to a fish market. Still love aquariums somehow.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you understand that I'm in this for cuddle buddies and adventure friends with the possibility of later developing physical intimacy.
...you like to long board (horrible at it myself, but it's fun).
...you enjoy art.
...you have long, dark, curly hair (can I touch it ? please ?).
...you like your ladies short, stout, and feisty.
...you like pen pals.
...you are looking to meet new people.
...you enjoy having a beer on a Tuesday night.
...you find yourself asking what you're gonna do with your humanities degree. (Especially this one.)